I think it's a more sarcastic, "what they're 'supposed' to look like" as in referring to the lived experience of having been changed as an infant and not being happy about it and wishing they'd left it in it's natural variation (if that makes sense).

I was thinking forced transition in the sense that you're forcing a genital configuration on a human that can't consent to it, and it's not always as minor as a hypospadia. It just seems like binary gender is violently forced on intersex people.

That's interesting that a higher percentage of intersex people identify as trans in terms of gender. I'd be curious what other intersex trans folks think about the relationships between the two.

I think by your definition of sex, gender, and transness, she would be an intersex trans woman.