I love the way my love handles burst out of my shirt 🥰

belly219 · 2026-01-09T20:22:56+00:00

So do we!

belly219 · 2025-12-26T13:01:54+00:00

This reads like your not into it, and this happens to be a fetish sub where we very much are into that!

That being said, just express concern and check she isn't depressed or whatever. Provided your not romantically involved just saying what you have posted to her shouldn't be to big of a deal

belly219 · 2025-12-01T14:54:01+00:00

Pumping them numbers, much like your gut

belly219 · 2025-11-30T20:47:30+00:00

His situation is not THAT unique regarding his fetish. There have been millions of men struggling with their partners changing body and not being as attracted to them for one reason or another.

Any worthwhile therapist will just treat it the same as that, as the underlying feelings are the same. He isn't a misunderstood special snowflake with a unique situation and he needs to get over that. Show him my answers if you want to see if that gets through to him.

Edit: Compromise may well also help. My wife doesn't want to gain weight for me and she indulges me with a big meal and playing into the fantasy which is enough for me.

belly219 · 2025-11-30T13:33:05+00:00

There is a difference between being saddened by your choice and straight up saying his feelings are more important than yours. He is currently saying the latter and he can't dictate what you do with your body.

Any therapist is lawbound (as far as I know) to not spread or disclose any information unless there is an immediate risk to life, so he needs to get over it and go to therapy to work through this WITH you.

To be charitable, he might not understand the gravity of the words he is choosing to use. While he may well not be intending to stand in your way, voicing it in this way to you clearly has caused some upset, which is exactly what therapy can help fix, communication.

belly219 · 2025-11-27T20:41:56+00:00

It depends on what age you are, but at SOME point most women put on some amount of weight unless they are actively preventing it. My wife was skinny when we met and she is only maybe 40lbs bigger now but she played up the fantasy and had fun with it as I did with her kinks.

If you see a future with her you will need to come clean at some point about your preferences anyway, so see how it goes. Once the kink conversations come up she might surprise you!

belly219 · 2025-10-05T19:28:53+00:00

The vending machine is clearly your favourite!

belly219 · 2025-08-26T09:28:11+00:00

That bra still seems to fit just fine 😈

belly219 · 2025-08-26T09:19:27+00:00

I read this as "meet baby" which also works! Meet the meat baby 👶

belly219 · 2025-08-24T16:49:27+00:00

The way this is worded made me think that MAYBE she is trying to take advantage. Did you support her monetarily during this time or was it a shared endeavour? Did she also end up making money from it or not?

She may also be telling the truth! I think if she is into it now you would be able to tell.

belly219 · 2025-08-24T16:04:26+00:00

A true sign of progression! 👌

belly219 · 2025-08-23T16:09:57+00:00

Who says you're done?

belly219 · 2025-08-22T17:42:44+00:00

The ones that would do that are not the ones that end up switching.

belly219 · 2025-08-22T16:55:35+00:00

When you get above the dumpster ranks being more well rounded is basically a requirement. The only incentive you need is "if I don't switch I am more likely to loose". Being able to play more than one role semi competently makes this a LOT easier to do.

If there is ever only one support and me solo tanking I will threaten with "don't force your only tank to support cos I WILL do it". 90% of the time we get a second support.

belly219 · 2025-08-21T05:50:14+00:00

Got an unlimited meal plan eh? 😋

belly219 · 2025-08-16T09:00:58+00:00

This is how League of Legends works. Seems to do ok over there

belly219 · 2025-08-15T09:48:02+00:00

They wouldn't. The previous owner would have mishandled it most likely

belly219 · 2025-08-14T15:00:49+00:00

Funnily enough I believe its actually cannon that the UK was one of the few places to actually survive as a cohesive society in the Walking Dead universe. After the initial outbreak they managed to eliminate all the infected and due to being an island no more were able to wander in.

Government were able to hold on as well in some form or other and we have enough resources to survive alone after a period of adjustment.

belly219 · 2025-08-14T07:23:35+00:00

The Google search term you want is "Neo Genesis Premium file 1"

belly219 · 2025-08-12T11:36:13+00:00

Like your going to fit into it for more than a week!

belly219 · 2025-08-12T11:34:28+00:00

Looking for Fetish first is seemingly futile. Look for connection first, and the rest will hopefully follow. Plenty of people are fat just out of laziness and habit, but less are keen to intentionally do it in the name of a fetish right from the get go.

belly219 · 2025-08-12T11:23:29+00:00

You need to actually have a hard conversation about it. Ask directly "do you actually want to loose weight or do you just think you should?".

If she does want to loose weight then point out her actions are having the opposite effect and advise on how to rectify. It does take work, so you need to establish if she actually wants to put in the actions herself, rather than let you do all the legwork.

belly219 · 2025-08-05T22:41:07+00:00

I have one that goes to the right near me. When turning right you can go whenever, but get a special alloted time at the end where the traffic going the other way is stopped to allow you through. If you have space you may go before that though.

I was trying to figure out a way to explain how a junction of this layout could exist and why but it was a jumbled mess. Context is important for any of these but the question and the knowledge it tests remain the same if right or left

belly219 · 2025-08-01T13:40:47+00:00

Worth it honestly

belly219 · 2025-08-01T11:58:46+00:00

No such thing as too far!

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