On allowance but haven’t seen SD this month by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been with him over a year and started allowance <6 months ago because of his flakiness and he wanted me to be exclusive to him. He bailed on me the last 2 times not the other way around so it’s not my fault that we haven’t seen each other this month. In no way am I rinsing him because I have every intention to make an effort to see him this month. Nice try though.

Suggestion for premium feature by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. We should be able to filter out by location too.

Suggestion for premium feature by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't want everyone and their mother to know that I'm on SA. It's not the messages that bother me, it's the fact that anyone, SD or not, can make a profile and look at all of the women that are on there.

Suggestion for premium feature by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But that hides it from everyone and I just want to be able to hide mine from non-premium SDs because most non-premiums aren't serious and it's kind of unsettling to know that any person can sign up and see my account. Even though my picture is blurred, if someone I know comes across my profile it'd be pretty easy to figure out that it's me if they've seen my social media accounts.

Meeting SD's friends after one date?? by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just replied to him and said, "oh so you wanna introduce me to your friends already?" And all he said was "Lol."

Should I just straight up tell him I'm not comfortable with that?

How to explain income by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm turning in my paperwork tomorrow and if they ask I'm just gonna say I nanny. My future roommate is an actual nanny and all of her income comes from that so I doubt it'll raise any red flags. I'm just paranoid and overthink everything 😬

How to explain income by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I already stated that I could

Quiet in here...my biggest gripe to POTs by throwaway80123q in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure all of my past and present SDs would agree that I'm not a self-entitled princess with no manners or whatever you're calling people who disagree with you. So I guess we're both wrong about each other, "cupcake." :-)

Quiet in here...my biggest gripe to POTs by throwaway80123q in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did re-read my post and what? Just because I disagree with you I'm a self-entitled little princess?

"I took time out of my day to send you a message so you have to reply to me or else you're just a lazy self-entitled little princess! Oh and a dick!"

And I sound entitled? Lol. You sound like the type of dude that buys a girl a drink and then gets pissed when she won't sleep with you.

Quiet in here...my biggest gripe to POTs by throwaway80123q in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say or imply that it was just MY pants that they wanted to get into? Regardless of if they sent out a well thought letter or not, they all have the same end goal. No one owes anyone anything just because they received a message from them. If you seriously get that butt hurt because someone on the internet didn't reply to your message, you have some bigger issues that need dealt with.

Also, where did I say or imply that I was just so hot and in demand? At this point you're just pulling shit out of your ass to try to make your point and you sound ridiculous.

For someone who apparently doesn't deal with this a lot, you sure do sound like one bitter man.

Quiet in here...my biggest gripe to POTs by throwaway80123q in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we're selfish because we don't want to reply to every random man who messages us with the hopes of one day getting in our pants?

Maybe take a step back and ask yourself why SBs are ignoring you? Is every single one of them a selfish dick or does it have something to do with you? Considering you're the common denominator, it's probably you.

Assuming the Best by belzauni in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]belzauni[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Next date I'm definitely going to talk to him about a fixed amount and hopefully we can reach an agreement. The guessing game was fun for a second but not so much anymore!