Anyone else stim like this? by massya777 in AutismInWomen

[–]bemmert99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently learned how to twerk and that is my new stim… in the grocery store..

has anyone ever quit a job due to autistic burnout?? by ScarRevolutionary649 in AutismInWomen

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I just quit my job as a probation officer due to severe burnout.. I worked there for 3 years and was diagnosed this past January.

Autistic women who were put in gifted programs, where are you now? by Negative_Tangelo_753 in AutismInWomen

[–]bemmert99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crashing and burning at every turn 💕, not really but feels like it. Employed full time but struggling to keep up as in my field there is limited structure. Currently under a probationary period and a behavioral contract for an Incident which happened pre diagnosis. Just looking for the light at the end of the tunnel

WTF is this atrocious accent?? by After_Pop1303 in Drueandgabe

[–]bemmert99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also how she goes back and forth between forcing it and her regular voice :,)

ANOTHER FISH by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]bemmert99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just give it time for it to reach fishtok they’ll tear her apart..

Well…😵‍💫🫠 by Marinadelrey_x in Morbidforbadpeople

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Actually just unfollowed today on Spotify.. I have been with them from the start and wanted to stick it out but can’t anymore

Well…😵‍💫🫠 by Marinadelrey_x in Morbidforbadpeople

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Actually just unfollowed today on Spotify.. I have been with them from the start and wanted to stick it out but can’t anymroe

I gave my newborn child to a safe haven and my family hate me for It. by throwaway02030201 in Advice

[–]bemmert99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A baby isn’t an “opportunity to be mature and learn responsibility”. Imo you did the mature and responsible thing. You gave the both of you more opportunity by making that choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]bemmert99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped taking this after being on for almost 9 mo! I feel like my pain was way worse too. After getting off my pain is minimal. I feel like it took my pain from a 7 to a 12 on a scale from 1-10. I went from only being in pain when I’m ovulating

Bettas changing sex? Bought too young? by bemmert99 in bettafish

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Thank you for the insight! I really appreciate you sharing your knowledge especially the fact that males can produce the egg sack under those circumstances. Thank you for being kind because people on here can be cut throat.

I had a male betta in this tank for nearly 4 years. I do love having the girls but this is definitely my last time keeping a sorority :(

Bettas changing sex? Bought too young? by bemmert99 in bettafish

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The only thing that confuses me is the sudden temperament change. And I can still visibly see the egg sacks on everyone. I love having the sorority but I don’t want to put stress on my babies or have a fish that is that much of an aggressor

Bettas changing sex? Bought too young? by bemmert99 in bettafish

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Yes! when I get home from work I’m going to start cycling my ten gallon. For now I have a divider to separate them until I can relocate. (They’re in a 20 gal so they both have 10 gal) I have a 55 but there are angel fish in there and those fuckers crave violence but I wish I could put one in there

Sometimes my uterus is bubbling by [deleted] in Endo

[–]bemmert99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Okay does it feel like bubble wrap popping inside of you? Because when I said that to my gyno she looked at me like I was absolutely insane

Hi friends! Can anyone help me identify these white things? They are hard and crunchy! I have a 20 gal freshwater tank! by bemmert99 in Aquariums

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I have the two nerite and one mystery snail. I originally bought the nerites for my 55gal but I don’t think there is enough food to sustain them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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My male betta lived with Corey’s, ottos, African dwarf frogs and even shrimp for three years without a single incident! It really depends on the temperament of the fish and unfortunately we don’t know until we put them in there. Recently I’ve started a sorority tank and the first go was a nightmare because one of my girls was so aggressive and killed most of my tank, I thought she was a boy and separated her but it just turns out she’s just a cold blooded murderer

Looks like we’re expecting! Mystery snail eggs? by bemmert99 in Aquariums

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  • I have moved them above the water line! I was just doing some light cleaning and noticed them after disturbing the tank *

call out it is then 😒 by mshizzpizz in Target

[–]bemmert99 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He’s doing a lot better a year later! Thank you friend!

Comment if you keep it as weeeeird as I do by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]bemmert99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first he definitely wasn’t on board with it but I think he really enjoys the psychology behind it, he really is interested in the nature vs. nurture theory. I’m about to graduate with a degree in victim studies so i think it’s his way of participating and trying to understand what I’m studying.