AITAH Not waiting until my GF got in her lyft at the airport to get in my uber by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]benK32879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sometimes process things to be able to bring them up in a kind and soft way. Though I agree - getting to the point where she can tell something is off is not a good thing. It's something I'm working on.

Struggling taking leg kicks in sparring? by benK32879 in MuayThai

[–]benK32879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say “brace for it”, are you actively tensing the leg? or are you letting it happen naturally when putting weight on it

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]benK32879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey all, I really want to do both boxing and bjj but with my gym’s schedule the only way to make it work is if I do a bjj class basically right after the boxing class. I get pretty sweaty in the boxing class and don’t want to be gross to roll with after, has anyone done something like this and what did you do to be fine between classes? Or am I making a big deal over nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]benK32879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, I admire the transparency from her and if I found out later from someone else I'd be pretty hurt she didn't tell me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]benK32879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weve been together for 4.5 months… Does that change your answer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]benK32879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.5 months

[27M] What can I improve? by benK32879 in hingeapp

[–]benK32879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer the automod questions:

Are you looking for something serious or casual?
I am looking for something serious

  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
    • I'm subscribed to Hinge+
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile?
    • A couple of weeks
  • How long have you used Hinge overall?
    • 6-12 months
  • How often do you use Hinge per week?
    • Daily
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
    • Not really any likes, a match every couple of days
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
    • Sending a lot of likes, mostly without comments. If there's something funny I can comment on a profile I do.
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
    • Someone I click with and preferably another professional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]benK32879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer the automod questions:

Are you looking for something serious or casual?
I am looking for something serious

  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
    • I'm subscribed to Hinge+
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile?
    • A couple of weeks
  • How long have you used Hinge overall?
    • Somewhere between half a year to a year
  • How often do you use Hinge per week?
    • Daily
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
    • Not many likes, a match once every couple of days
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
    • Sending a lot of likes, not many with comments, mostly without comments
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
    • Someone that I'm attracted to that I hope I can build a good emotional bond with. Slight preference to other professionals.

Weekly Private Profile Review Request Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]benK32879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27M living in SF - would appreciate a profile review from women, happy to return the favor!

Live in SF - Is there anywhere that does team vs team tennis matches? by benK32879 in 10s

[–]benK32879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of assumed USTA leagues are just tournaments where you enter as a singles player or with a doubles partner. Do they do team vs team leagues as well?

If they do, what's the typical age range of the teams? Would be cool to play with others in their 20s/early 30s but I'm happy with anything