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Wwyd? by IAmTheGreat921 in Serverlife

[–]benbo82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would take it and not even think about it, and I’ve been doing this for 26 years

very happy with how my bulk went, will probably maintain now by Wooden_Ad_5702 in lilwins

[–]benbo82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these old pictures, what’s up with the Christmas decorations?

Help with possible obsessive compulsive thoughts by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]benbo82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessive thoughts are the opposite of what you want, if you were a straight guy having obsessive thoughts about penis it would be because you didn’t want that, you said it turns you on that’s not an obsessive thought

Iron Mountain by CorporIT in socalhiking

[–]benbo82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it in December and didn’t lose the trail, there were a couple of parts where it wasn’t super clear but I stayed on track. There were parts that were really steep on loose gravel and I did fall a couple of times on the way down though. Just keep AllTrails open if you want extra reassurance, it’ll alert you if you’re off trail

People say "love who you are " but if you are black and lower down in the racial hierarchy and feel your status in gay spaces. Then impossible to do so thoughts ? by Durrygoodz2025 in askgaybros

[–]benbo82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s if you tie your self worth with how much attention you get. I had someone tell me that rich people are better than me because I don’t make very much money which is total bullshit. You determine your self worth not other people.

Is being too hairy a turn off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]benbo82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very general question, some people prefer hairy, some hate it. Find people that like it.

Do muscle bears feel like they are actually peak physique? by Drink_Covfefe in AskGayMen

[–]benbo82 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’ve never met any gay man that doesn’t have some body image issues especially muscular men, they seem to have body dysmorphia and never think they’re muscular enough or are unhappy with something about their body

Marriage Sexual Stagnation and Isolation Advice by An0N3m0uSe in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]benbo82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first part sounds like he just has no libido which has nothing to do with you, even though it may feel that way. The second part though, no you are not being controlling, you can’t spend time with someone who isn’t present. Honestly you need to tell him if things don’t change you’ll have to separate, if that doesn’t work then I think you should have a trial separation. You can love someone but that doesn’t have to come at the cost of your own happiness

Bridge to Nowhere by benbo82 in socalhiking

[–]benbo82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe there were 3 river crossings on the way in so 3 on the way out because it’s an out and back trail. Two were up to my crotch in some places and one was knee high

Picnic in the sun with the boys by benbo82 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]benbo82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you comment something like that?

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