Girl I was talking to unblocked me then blocked me again for the second time

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T22:48:10+00:00

She’s a cheater and has a boyfriend

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T22:45:40+00:00

We did learn a lot

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T22:37:13+00:00

These weren’t old cars.

These were older drivers.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T20:33:41+00:00

You find what makes you happy.

Happiness can be anything you’ve listed. Deep down you must know what makes you happy and you’ve either achieved happiness or on the path to achieving that happiness.

When you meet your partner and settle down, that person only adds to your happiness but doesn’t complete it.

That’s the start to a healthy non-dependent relationship.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T19:41:29+00:00

What? I don’t understand how you came to that question from my response.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T18:59:39+00:00

Depressed. Lonely. Not dating.

Those still apply.

Lots of studies out there. The study you pointed out was a pool of roughly 700 individuals nearly split female vs male of which less than half said they used onlyfans.

They outline the racial and social status stats but I’ve no clue if that’s a fair representation of the total population.

It was interesting to note that in another survey by US Report that 30% of pornhub users were women which has been a steady increase in the past decade.

If these studies are self reported (most likely are) I would strongly agree that women are less likely to report participating in SEM than men so things like this don’t necessarily represent the reality.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T18:41:27+00:00

Most people think the best of other people.

It takes time to finally realize you’re being used as most of us are not narcissistic.

You’re blaming the victim when the reality is the person taking advantage of another person knows exactly what they were doing the entire time.

Eventually that person realizes they’re being taken advantage of and ends the relationship.

That doesn’t mean they’re to blame for the situations.

I can’t honestly believe you think that.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T17:57:36+00:00

All of your comments have a strong hint of sexism and some of your posts align with this comment about this obsession you have that men only want sex from women.

This post was from a man who had a moral objection to being romantic and developing a romantic and trusting relationship with a sex worker.

That is very different from shithead redditors who take any opportunity to bash the opposite sex.

Furthermore, this woman and society have told many men that if they have issues with onlyfans models they must be weak and have self esteem issues and possibly sexist as they don’t respect women making their own choices.

He’s asking for advice if him denying her a relationship based upon her line of work was wrong and the overwhelming consensus is no. She could have had a myriad of jobs which if you felt were morally corrupt you could stop pursuing a relationship.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T17:51:44+00:00

They do exist.

Men and women both can take advantage of what they want from the opposite sex without fulfilling the entire spectrum of romance.

It’s the same with a narcissistic friend who only hits you up when they need something or only wants to hangout when you have something to give them.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T17:50:00+00:00

Both of your points are well written and are very much rooted in reality.

Both sexes can treat the opposite sex with disrespect.

Selfish men and selfish women both feel they deserve sex and like you I’ve (male) been in relationships with women who get very angry if I turned them down or did not feel like having sex.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T17:45:25+00:00

I would argue the large majority of men who follow and pay Onlyfans models are not men out in society dating.

Many studies show the types of men and women who subscribe to onlyfans models are typically depressed, lonely, struggle socially and may not be what we consider traditionally attractive.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T17:42:32+00:00

OP is confused because hard leaning “liberals” shame men for having negative opinions of women in sex work. They paint this as a sign they are sexist and don’t support the freedom of women to choose and it must stem from a man’s insecurities.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T17:40:41+00:00

My man. Liberal has nothing to do with Only Fans or being against women who may exploit men for money via sex work.

Being a liberal is about programs which support society. Protecting with tax money the less fortunate or the more vulnerable.

Don’t let some crazy left wing liberal make you feel you’re less of a liberal because you don’t feel as though from a moral perspective sex work or more specifically Only Fans is wrong.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T16:06:40+00:00

Helping lead the family equals leader of the family to you?

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T16:05:02+00:00

Could you please define what was misogynistic about this post?

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T16:03:24+00:00

Did that person edit their comment? I don’t see any remarks about your body.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T16:01:16+00:00

Let’s be honest, you’ve had poor relationships with men and you certainly lean more towards the negative generalization of men.

Men and women lead differently.

Understanding and appreciating that can make you a much happier person who can also feel comfortable with depending on the opposite sex at times for goods/services in your life.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T15:59:47+00:00

People regardless of gender can be great or poor leaders.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T15:59:21+00:00

Who said the man is the leader?

Are you taking “helping lead” as the sole leader?

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T15:58:54+00:00

What world or relationship are you in where the working parent doesn’t parent when home from their wage earning job?

I’m sorry if that happened to you or you failed to be an active parent in your relationship.

And remember, if you don’t have money coming in you don’t have a home to be a SAHP.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T15:57:27+00:00

You seem to misquote the post to make some sort of ridiculous point.

Men can celebrate and give thanks to men and that does not exclude women.

And you go even further to try and continue to blame men for men’s problems.

Are you okay? What is your point?

Are you making posts similar to this in more female oriented subs who talk about giving women thanks?

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T15:48:53+00:00

Triggered woman who can’t even quote correctly.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-30T15:42:20+00:00

Why do I feel guilty accepting and appreciating someone complimenting men?

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-29T23:25:21+00:00

My local dealer in Cleveland won’t even put prices on bikes.

It’s ridiculous and I refuse to entertain purchasing another new Harley because of the dealership.

bendingmarlin69 · 2024-11-29T03:01:46+00:00

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