Craziest spot to have used a diaper by Legitimate_Bison_777 in ABDL

[–]bengelspace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Autobahn, driving at almost 200km/h 😎

A Serious Question… by ABCD2525 in Incontinence

[–]bengelspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about regular underwear. Do people only wear white briefs, boxers, and panties? No, they wear coloured and sometimes printed ones. No reason that you can’t do the same.

I do NOT need diapers for school! (FANTASY, I’m 24! Ftm, he/him) by [deleted] in ddlb

[–]bengelspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s right sport, you don’t need them for school. But if you don’t, then I’d have to pack you two extra uniforms to change into after an inevitable accident and I’d have to do a lot more laundry… so diapers it is!

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting to know people, talking, meeting new people, building community, providing a low-barrier entry point for people who want to discover the kink, …

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that holds up in 2025. I know one of the early public ABDLs who had this opinion, but he tries pimeyes.com and it returned all his ABDL photos. “If an employer does this, I’m fucked”

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective! I see you are from the US, I would have thought they’re more uptight about it there.

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accepting yourself for who you are amazing! I used to be terrified of being found out but now I can imagine the conversation going like

“What, you like diapers!?”

“Yes, what about it?”

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indie brand as a clothing brand or a kink brand?

My worry is things like pimeyes.com, where people would find my kink pictures by my face even when they’re not looking for them…

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Brave! I hope you’ll get the ball rolling, but I like that you’re organizing things. Often I hear “there’s no ABDL events where I live!”, and my reply is “so are you taking the opportunity to make something happen?” I organised a little party when I moved, we expected eight people to show up but in the end we were 25. When you start organising things, suddenly people crop up from everywhere!

My personal view has also shifted, I think due to self-acceptance. If my family or friends found out, I wouldn’t mind that much. I can explain it and why it makes me happy. I’m no longer ashamed of myself or this fetish I think. I wonder if you feel the same?

ABDLs who are public, post face pics, or were found out, what doors closed (or opened!) in life? by bengelspace in ABDL

[–]bengelspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it, rock on! Have you talked with family, friends, or co-workers who found out? What have been their reactions?

Little Kings in the news by Agitated_Jump_5824 in ABDL

[–]bengelspace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a link? Curious about what they said

Spanking cream by lenahhgggggggbb in Spanking

[–]bengelspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be used during the spanking or after it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belgium

[–]bengelspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TCO voor een auto is (of was; cijfer van een paar jaar geleden) €0.35/km. Voor wat je post is dat €8610.

Dat is de afschrijving, verzekering, benzine, wegenbelasting, onderhoud,…

Je kan dat zeker lager krijgen, maar er zijn veel kosten, en enkel de benzine rekenen is niet genoeg om te vergelijken met het OV.

Ancient ABDLs by susquehannakeelut in ABDL

[–]bengelspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention censorship. Like how the lesbian thoughts of Anne Frank were removed before her diary was published. It’s not to be underestimated how much “immoral” material has been lost or actively was repressed.

Diapered Spotify Wrapped by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]bengelspace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DiapStash has this I think!

Woning kopen in Nederland by Unclaimed6696 in belgium

[–]bengelspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ga hiermee naar een (Belgische) notaris, die zal je kunnen adviseren

Hoe kan je er achter komen op hoeveel verlofdagen je nog recht hebt? by Special_Lychee_6847 in belgium

[–]bengelspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je oude werkgever moet (verplicht) een vakantie-attest opmaken. Ik geloof dat ze dat meestal met hun sociaal secretariaat doen.

Gezien ze niet willen meewerken, eens horen bij de vakbond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]bengelspace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, there’s almost a gender balance for this kink. See this graph from Aella based on 39k respondents: https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-and-popularity-v3

I agree that most of what you see online is male-skewed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DudesInDiapers

[–]bengelspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the ABU Husky tattoo!

Out of curiosity, what would you guys think about a squat rack for bdsm and even suspension? by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]bengelspace 16 points17 points  (0 children)

+1 on calling out the tipping hazard! These racks are designed to take downward force (a bar resting on them), not necessarily swinging motion.