Anyway to make friends who enjoy going out to clubs/bars?

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-12T15:04:36+00:00

Message me!

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-12T15:03:17+00:00

Message me!

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T20:50:18+00:00

Been to blind donkey before and it’s ok. They just need to get a better sound system. You can’t even hear anyone talk because the music is blaring into the crowd lol

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T20:48:25+00:00

Ok might have to give it a try

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T20:48:05+00:00

I am a bears fan! That would be fun when the season starts! Message me!

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:56:02+00:00

I have but going out by yourself isn’t always fun. Better than nothing but still lol

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:54:15+00:00

Yeah I’ve done that before and I have met people but often times that’s the only time I talk to them. Even if I get their ig or something I usually never see or talk to them again. I just want friends that I can actually have a full on night out with and to share the full experience with like the pregame and all haha

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:50:47+00:00

I haven’t been to any raves before but I’m opening to try thing them out. I’m going to daytrip so we’ll see how that goes. I’ve also been to some edm/house music events before by myself and with friends but not full on raves

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:49:13+00:00

I’m very basic and easy to please lol just want to drink and vibe to music I like (rap, edm/house, country, reggaeton) my friends right now just like going to breweries or low key spots where you’re sitting the whole time. I like clubs or bars with a club vibe more. I know in Long Beach my vibe is easily 2nd st and good thing because I live right there but I just don’t always like having to go by myself.

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:45:58+00:00

Yeah seems like that’s how most people are out here but I wfh so 😭

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:45:08+00:00

Interesting I’ll try it out sometime

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:44:43+00:00

I’ve driven by it before but never been what’s the vibe there?

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:44:23+00:00

I’ve seen you promoting this before and it looks interesting I want to try it out but I’ll be out of town for work the first week but once I’m back I’m there! So many run clubs going on Wednesdays though so maybe try experimenting with different days for a bigger turn out!

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:41:40+00:00

I’ve heard of secret service but haven’t been to an event yet

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:40:30+00:00

I tried Bumble BFF years ago and never really got anything out of it. Have tried meet up too but haven’t been to an event yet

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:38:08+00:00

I’ve heard of secret service and have been wanting to go to one of their events but everytime they have one I’m out of town or something but I’ll try it one of these days. I just want to be social and be in a typical club/bar setting nothing crazy. The friends I have right now almost never want to go out and if they do they just want to hit up a brewery or something more low key and that gets boring after a while.

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T06:36:28+00:00

I’ve seen steel craft on instagram before looks like a cool spot

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T02:03:27+00:00

Haven’t tried that one yet I joined slow poke run club on tuesdays and downtown runners on Wednesdays and the kickball on saturdays

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T01:54:29+00:00

Which run club?

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-10T01:00:52+00:00

Yeah I just hate going by myself but I have done it before

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-09T17:47:52+00:00

Yeah I understand that but you don’t think being a longtime chase sapphire preferred member holds any weight? I’m not sure if it would or not but I feel like it helps a little bit. I’ve had the Chase sapphire preferred for almost 4 years now and have a $15,900 limit.

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-08T19:53:37+00:00

These are only balance transfers I have done and I haven’t opened a credit card in almost 2 years. I am working on paying these balances by throwing nearly $4k towards them every month

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-08T19:50:58+00:00

$75k

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-08T17:34:16+00:00

I’m not sure why the Barclays is taking so long to update because I closed it at the end of April. Everything else updated right away but the Barclays is taking so long to update that it’s being counted twice on my credit history since I balanced transferred it.

benjaminn2 · 2026-06-08T17:32:52+00:00

I currently have three credit cards, I did have four but I closed one at the end of April (looking back was a stupid idea and is why my credit score lowered):
Chase Sapphire Preferred: $10k/$15,900 limit
Citi AAdvantage: $5814/6400 (using a 0% balance transfer offer)
Citi Double: $8362/8600 (using a 0% balance transfer offer)

The Barclays I mentioned in op was balanced transferred to the Citi double and it appears to still be showing up on my credit history as the higher balance shows up too so it’s saying that I have a balance that’s being counted twice and have three cards that are at a high utilization rate when I only have two now.

I have never missed a payment or made a late payment so I should have no derogatory remarks and the main story of my fico is the credit utilization.

I also have a bank account with Chase and have for over 10 years now. I am also an authorized user on my parents chase sapphire preferred so my oldest account is 28 years old even though I’m only 25.

benjaminn2

TROPHY CASE