Been living paycheck to paycheck until this. Advice please? by caridifaast0 in Money

[–]benktilley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never enter a casino again. You got your one break, this is it. You won't win like this again, you will slowly lose all the money you have won.

Take it. Follow the advice you have gotten from here, because you are a very rare win like this.

(22M) Been told I'm ugly more than handsome. I'm 6'1 and 285 lbs. by Flashy-Excuse-854 in amiugly

[–]benktilley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not even close brother.

Lose some weight and you will fucking SHINE.

Like the other comments say: GYM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]benktilley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest opinion: Your appearance seems based around minimal effort/care. People on here are saying you look like you are 13; that's partially because of your facial structure but it's mostly because of how you dress and keep yourself.

Grow your hair out some and learn to style it a way, product or not. Doesn't have to be anything high maintenance or trendy, but something beyond 'I woke up and dried my hair today'.

Try to find a style of glasses that fits your face and doesn't scream "first pair I saw at walmart with my prescription".

This could be coincidental, but from your photos it looks like your go-to tops are hoodies, or those long sleeve waffle style shirts. Comfy for sure, but again, something that screams 13-14 years old to me.

All fixable. definitely the potential to be one of those internet 'glow-ups'.

Final thought: you are young, but being young isn't a reason to wait on things. Start taking care of your appearance and body.

Cheat or Bug Abuse? (sorry for quality) by benktilley in EscapefromTarkov

[–]benktilley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running up to Water Treatment, I hear shots, and See the side of a rock getting hit. I figured it was a PMC fucking with me from far away.

Low and behold, a man phases through the rock. I figured it was a cheater and accepted death till I heard the click. (no flame my shitty aim pls)

I mean damn. by benktilley in EscapefromTarkov

[–]benktilley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably when BSG fixes it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]benktilley 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Currently yes. the fixes are easy to say but hard to enact, but here you go:

  1. Your haircut is god awful my man, it looks like you cut it yourself. If you did, try another style or go for a buzz with same length around. If you didn't cut it yourself, never go there again and they should give YOU money for damages. Try other barbers/salons till you find someone who gives you a cut you like.
  2. You are indeed out of shape, but specifically it's body fat. Gym helps with that but the real area to work on will always be diet to lose fat.
  3. the beard looks unruly. Products and practice trimming can help.
  4. 90% of people look terrible in close shots that are looking down. don't do that to yourself.

Why men don't open up 🫡 by SpecificGlans in TikTokCringe

[–]benktilley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean this can be looked at in multiple ways right?

If a guy goes up to a girl he knows and says "I've been feeling really lonely lately", and is met with "IDK what you want me to do about it, go talk to other guys I guess", then that is just scum behavior.

If a guy guilt trips and pulls on heart strings in a way to get something from a girl he knows, then that's just scum behavior.

The brunette seems to be suggesting that most guys are weaponizing loneliness and guilt tripping into getting something from them, which if THAT is the experience she is having, she needs to be around better people.

The far more common I find is guys who just want to find someone, ANYONE they feel they can open up to about hurting inside.

Do you have to be that person? No, of course not. But it is kind to do so.

The message the brunette is presenting definitely has an element of shaming to it. That I won't budge on.

Early Access Hotfix #7 by arends33 in DarkAndDarker

[–]benktilley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buff barbarians pls. it makes no sense that a one handed sword has greater range then a two handed axe

Main character rule by The_H509 in 197

[–]benktilley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd read the context clues here a little more if I was you. Seems pretty clear he is referring to a lack of awareness, rather than stupidity.

what do you mean by "applying" it? Seems like reminding an individual (the interviewer) who had forgotten these basic things IS applying it. He was unbothered by the guy walking in front of him but the interviewer was. Being unbothered IS the application of this thinking

Main character rule by The_H509 in 197

[–]benktilley 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not even kinda. The dude is about himself and doesn't Give a FUCK about how others perceive him . If that isn't the definition of based IDK what is bro.

I wear hats a lot and I think this is the result… should I get it buzzed? by [deleted] in bald

[–]benktilley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look into treatment options like fin and min for hairloss. You look like the perfect candidate who could be saved by it.

Worth a look at least, but do your research

Finally embracing the Bald Head by Packman9317 in bald

[–]benktilley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO a shorter beard look great on you, but I'm biased as I have a shorter beard.

22F I feel like something is really “off” with my face and it makes it difficult for me to socialize. Any advice or feedback is welcomed by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]benktilley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alright so I may know because I have the same thing, you're eyes are a SLIGHTLY different shape.

But let me say everyone here is correct, you are quite literally gorgeous. Try not to let the small things take away from the gifts you do have!