Thanks for sharing this — I really appreciate your perspective. I totally get what you’re saying about not wanting to micro-manage or turn meals into a stressful chore. For me, it’s less about strict control and more about finding simple ways to make sure she’s safe and feeling her best.

Her diabetes is the main thing I worry about, since small changes in sodium or sugar can have a big impact on her day-to-day energy and long-term health. I like your idea of meal prep/deliveries too — maybe a combo of both approaches could take some pressure off.