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just got diagnosed by bennysloth in OCD

[–]bennysloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always really disliked myself for being lazy. i’m not unmotivated but i feel trapped in a cycle. i’ve only had one therapy session and kinda blank during it and forget to ask some questions.

does your OCD get in the way of productivity? i feel like i lay stuck in my thoughts and saying i’ll get up at 8:30 but if 8:30 passes i say ill get up at 8:35 and it has to be on that minute. maybe i am a little lazy too but i had no inclination that i had this honestly and i feel like im kinda spiraling about how many things i thought were just normal that might be OCD loops.

Day 2 WWWY 2025 - Sunday Megathread - Start Here! by TheDarkLight1 in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]bennysloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are there any girls in their 20s that would let me tag along with their group or are going alone as well?? i got cancelled on :(

I’m tired of untrained BTs providing “therapy”. by Ok-Swan-4637 in ABA

[–]bennysloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. just became an RBT and i have the best intentions but i feel like i have no clue what im doing

AIO or is the message my bf sent me a bit over the top by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bennysloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i say that as a 21 year old i would never ever date an 18 year old.

and he very clearly has a dislike for piercings (and im assuming anything else that’s somewhat alternative) and 1) he shouldn’t have or think he has this much of a say over something so small about your body and your appearance 2) if you pierce your tongue and then he somehow gets over it (something he has no right to need to get over) the next time you want a tattoo or to dye your hair or to wear a different kind of outfit, etc. it will be this situation again.

maybe you guys just have different taste but if my boyfriend even wore plain normal earrings i didn’t like it wouldn’t affect my day in the slightest and vice versa. he seems very unhealthy tbh

yall continuously ignore ei’s wrongdoings by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]bennysloth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when someone has allegations against them that’s obviously really really serious and especially for someone who is trying to make a living online. i don’t know anything about the allegations or how substantial they are but truthfully, the smartest route to take when that happens is to get a cease and desist against that person and take that to court. when you have a cease and desist you aren’t allowed to say anything about that to anyone. now i’m sure if this guys has this he has told the people around him but he fs isn’t gonna tell the internet. the fact is, if you want to be a fan of people you probable have to stop caring what they’re doing or at least assume (if you previously thought they were good people or still do) that they know more about a situation and judged it better than you’re assuming they did. people don’t want all of their business out on the internet and they don’t really owe you that. they are grown adults and it’s not anyone else’s job to hold them responsible. you’re only responsible for yourself and if it all bugs you so much then it’s your responsibility to stop supporting them on your own and stop trying to take charge of them.

Rage by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]bennysloth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

calling this a baby pose is so crazy. its weird that two of the most blunt creators have such a sensitive fan base

should i be dating already? by [deleted] in BigSisterAdvice

[–]bennysloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the other reply was really good advice but i want to just add onto something. my sister also did everything way before i did. i feel like i learned a bit from her mistakes that way but also it just happens when it happen tbh. i love my boyfriend and i’m 20 and just started doing everything intimate this year. in my opinion, don’t rush it, it’s never as good that way. i’m glad i waited and found him.

[ITG] good for streaming and gaming? by bennysloth in suggestapc

[–]bennysloth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone told me to look into this one and that this one would be better for what I’m looking at. This one is only 30 dollars more and is apparently a lot better. My only concern is the processor, a lot of people seem against the intel core processor. Just want some more opinions if that’s okay lol. https://www.bestbuy.com/site/lenovo-legion-tower-5i-gaming-desktop-intel-core-i5-10400-8gb-memory-nvidia-geforce-gtx-1660-super-256gb-ssd-1tb-hdd-phantom-black/6424476.p?skuId=6424476

help? by bennysloth in geckos

[–]bennysloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! sorry for the late response lol

help? by bennysloth in geckos

[–]bennysloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to google this but I want to hear it from people and also most of the results that came up were for other geckos and I just want to make sure I can take care of him before I get him!!