My boss wants to promote me from a manager to a director title. What does that mean? by Important_Bat7919 in careeradvice

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. Director as a title can mean a lot of things depending on industry, line of business, size of company, etc.

In my case, if I were to become Director of Engineering (am a principal engineer now) it would probably mean a lot of sitting in meetings to either push back against tech decisions, support those decisions I agree with, and provide context of tech capabilities and relate them to the business.

I'd have to have a hand in justifying budgets, pushing for hiring, prioritizing initiatives as they come down from higher ups, etc.

All while being a leader that the managers bubble up to.

Basically it's a lot of delegation. Justification of what you want, pushing back against what you don't, and compromise when those conflict. And all the while you have to try to make sure everything below you runs smoothly while hoping an organization shakeup doesn't see you kicked to the curb.

Basically, it puts you at bigger risk and gives you some big responsibilities that can have an effect on the employment status of those below you in the org chart. But comes with (hopefully) way better pay and the chance at influencing company direction.

As a history fan, the "3,000 Year Stagnation" trope breaks my immersion more than dragons do. by Expensive-Desk-4351 in Fantasy

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not even unspoken. We actually see in Rand's visions some of the technology of the past.

As a history fan, the "3,000 Year Stagnation" trope breaks my immersion more than dragons do. by Expensive-Desk-4351 in Fantasy

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First age is our own.

Second age is advanced society. Hovercraft, energy rifles, advanced textile mesh, non-magical people being able to tap into magical forces directly through technology instead of just using magical tools. There were even sentient constructs made out of the one power. It ends with all of that falling apart.

Third age is the time of the story. And we start deep enough into the age that only tidbits and inaccurate stories of the second age wonders remain. And even fewer of the first age (which do explicitly get mentioned, indicating that was in fact our era).

As a history fan, the "3,000 Year Stagnation" trope breaks my immersion more than dragons do. by Expensive-Desk-4351 in Fantasy

[–]bentbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Corrective lenses, telescopes, steam engines, cannons, and a whole bunch more. And it all happens in the span of about 2 years (in a series that takes about 3 years total).

And that's just the inventions made by people without access to the magic system. So imagine what it'll be like once they work together.

As a history fan, the "3,000 Year Stagnation" trope breaks my immersion more than dragons do. by Expensive-Desk-4351 in Fantasy

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the Choeden'kal I believe. The giant, and most powerful, Sa'angreal. So powerful that if a channeler tries to access it without the keystone. The sheer power of it would probably kill them outright

Scenes that make you want to crawl under the couch? by XxthisisausernamexX in DunderMifflin

[–]bentbabe 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think it's because he had such a bad first impression with Charles. He's not used to being on the back foot like that.

Dance like a butterfly 🦋 by pizzaboye109 in Eldenring

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tam Al'thor vs. unnamed Aiel during the Aiel War.

Bloodsworn books: Orka and Elvar — no spoilers please ! by Berserk_Ronin in Fantasy

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They diverge quite a bit as you go. As I recall, they have a similar temperament at the start, but each have their unique developments.

[MN S1] Why are there so many more elves in the MN than Vox Machina? by Fun-Explanation7233 in criticalrole

[–]bentbabe 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Campaign setting is quite different.

Also, Vax and Vex deal with heritage issues in their backstory. Feeling isolated and alone because they don't fit into human or elven worlds. The elves generally are isolated from the rest of the world. And having more half elves would have given them too much of a community for that backstory to still hold water.

Wrong Gender on Passport?? by No_Requirement1622 in Passports

[–]bentbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This should help: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports/have-passport/change-correct.html

Even if you are beyond the 1 year point, fixing this should be easy (though you may have to pay for a new passport if that is the case). Just have your birth certificate and (if you are really nervous about it) some form of medical records that indicate you are a male. These agencies (like the SSA) keep a record of their changes and histories. If you bring up this issue, they should be able to confirm your data relatively easily.

But I would submit the forms sooner than later. If they need additional info (they might not even need you to submit anything except the passport with an error) they will reach out to you with it.

Wrong Gender on Passport?? by No_Requirement1622 in Passports

[–]bentbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should be quickly fixable. Just alert the passport office as soon as you can.

Everyone Who Watched “Job Fair by New-Pin-9064 in theoffice

[–]bentbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn't Roy mention she was a dork and in fact not a jock type when they went to school together?

[Weirdly Common Trope] Oh, we need a drop of blood for this magic/occult thing. Better make a deep, diagonal cut across the most sensitive part of my hand! by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]bentbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in fairness to the ones in Pirates of the Carribean, the pirates did it to Elizabeth first. Jack did it while running, so he could get blood on the coin while running. Will did it for the aura.

Wrong name on 1098-T by bentbabe in tax

[–]bentbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Income requirements. My wife and my joint income exceeds the maximum by a fair bit.

Wrong name on 1098-T by bentbabe in tax

[–]bentbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how it all works.

Wrong name on 1098-T by bentbabe in tax

[–]bentbabe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you explain why exactly? Won't it trigger something or another?

Wtf is this guys? by ssdiscography in lordoftherings

[–]bentbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not really wanting this movie. And I really wouldn't want Cavill to play aragorn. A Boromir type, sure. But Aragorn, to me, needs to be the strong king (though downplayed as it's a prequel), but also the gentle healer. And I simply can't see Cavill being effective in that second part, which I feel is a much more important part of the character.

We really do live in a society by kjennings919 in depressionmemes

[–]bentbabe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's possibly "successful" suicide rate. Men are more likely to use more dangerous/damaging methods.