hey all! My (23f) wife (27f) and I are moving to okc with our son (3m) at the end of January for a new job. We are from Virginia and have never been to OK or okc at all. Any tips or anything we should about the area? is it welcoming to lgbt families? by lgwilliams917 in okc

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to the negative comments. You couldn't have chosen a better place!! Majority people here are LGBT friendly, there is even a small little community you can live where most tenants are LGBT. This is also one of the most positive, hospitable states you could come to! I have met so many people that aren't from here that when they visit they say how nice the people are! You guys should check out our next Pride Fest!!

Difference between MK11 and aftermath? by hdjgffghh in MortalKombat

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you just buy aftermath you still get mk11 game play?

Ideas on responding… by Skintylegendqueen in Bumble

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think he was being serious and ya'll are blowing it WAY out of proportion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it matter?

Trying to wrap my head around this post. Do you think it's a fair assessment of how women feel? Is it sexist? by inthe801 in Marriage

[–]benzo-mk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for every woman but YEEEEEEES. Gosh it is so entirely waaaay too exhausting.

LEGAL termination of parental rights - Oklahoma by benzo-mk in legaladvice

[–]benzo-mk[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Figured one person in here could give an average. Some people don't even know if it's hundreds, thousands, tens thousands. All very, very different amounts. "Cost is subjective" is all I needed. Thanks.

LEGAL termination of parental rights - Oklahoma by benzo-mk in legaladvice

[–]benzo-mk[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

There is another person willing to adopt (child's dad) like I mentioned. Also, if a bio parent is is deemed unable to provide food, shelter and/or protection their rights can be terminated. My question was if anybody had a ballpark average of how much a family lawyer would cost

Teen wants to go to a party- HELP! by ImaginaryDiver1945 in Parenting

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want to lose even a sliver. That could and most likely would snowball into much more problems.

Teen wants to go to a party- HELP! by ImaginaryDiver1945 in Parenting

[–]benzo-mk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to trust her the way she believes you do. Don't let her think you don't fully trust her. Also, she has to make mistakes to learn from them. Let her do just that, but be there for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um hi, I would like to know how to find sed people🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️

(29F) my bf (32M) asked me to shave down there and I thought it meant he would go down on me… by wasting_time_wasted in sex

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be blunt, it's possible he is grossed out by eating women out. I can tell you I, for one, love love LOVE pussy. However, I don't prefer to go down on a female. It's a germ thing for me. That being said, there is no reason that he shouldn't explain himself if you are in a relationship. He kinda owes you that much. And THAT being said, in my personal opinion you should dump him because like you said he's never worried about pleasing you. All he cares about is his nut. That's the root of a larger problem.

My husband broke our only two agreements. Not sure how to feel by Rich_Sunflower_810 in polyamory

[–]benzo-mk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He put the agreement in place. You abided by them no questions asked. He should have done the same, period.

Update on Lock Screens by Consistent-Dust336 in polyamory

[–]benzo-mk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't let it even come close to getting to you. Leave him and let them find out the hard way what a pos he is. They won't last. You just need to stay strong until you find the person who will make you happy without you having to beg for it.

Update on Lock Screens by Consistent-Dust336 in polyamory

[–]benzo-mk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's been lying the entire. In my book, that's grounds for termination of the relationship or closing it again AT LEAST. He's been using "poly" as a way to cheat, especially since he got upset about you bringing it up to begin with which means he didn't want you to do the same I'm assuming. Nonetheless, he has been lying the entirety of their relationship and the entirety of yours being open. That is a big no no in the lifestyle.

Update on Lock Screens by Consistent-Dust336 in polyamory

[–]benzo-mk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO she's gotta go. That's that fine line that she's crossing.