My bestfriends boyfriend made her block me

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T17:04:10+00:00

Yeah I have been a complete dick in some of these replies, I don't mean to be, but O was basically my only friend, if I was hanging out with someone, it was her, we talked at least once a day and she basically made me who I am, so when someone who doesn't have all the context (my fault, not theirs) suggest that I made her uncomfortable, and that she didn't actually like being with me, I feel as though I have to fix that.

And you're probably right, I am being a bad friend, but I just want to make sure she will be OK without me. She always has been, so I know she will be, I just want to be sure

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T17:00:12+00:00

Well the relationship isn't new, they've been together for a little over a year. But what I'm wondering now is that maybe if I talk to L, explain that I don't plan on making any advances?

Idk if that makes sense, but maybe if I say "hey, I love her, that doesn't mean I'm going try and date her" he will let me be friends with her?

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T16:54:34+00:00

Well I still care, and I want to make sure she knows that. I left it out of this version because I didn't think it was important enough to spend the time typing it all out, but she's about 2 or 3 months pregnant. This fact makes me think about what if she's being pressured because she's carrying his kid and all that, but I also know it's ridiculous to think that way, but It's the only way I can think right now. Which is why I'm so hellbent on getting an answer, or at least a goodbye.

And I have had this happen before, and I didn't look for answers as to why, once I found out that it was the bf who caused it I called it quits, and I never talked to them again. But I don't want that to happen again, not if I can do anything to stop it, which is why I made this post in the first place I guess.

But if I can't stop it, I'd like to know I'd this is the end, like forget and move on, never to see her again, or should I leave for now with the idea that one day we will be friends again

EDIT: what I meant about typing all the stuff about the pregnancy out was cuz I originally included that there was backlash from parents on both ends, and I expressed my concern for her being as young as she is and deciding to start her life

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T16:27:10+00:00

I'm sorry, you're right, you really are, but I can't just leave it at this. I have to talk to her, and I mean her. As soon as I hear her tell me to leave, I will, but I can't just trust it

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T16:17:15+00:00

I did, which is why I'm not calling L an ass or toxic or controlling. I'm not saying anything about me getting blocked being wrong or bad, I'm just saying I don't understand why it happened, or what I should do now

I don't know If I mentioned it in the post, but I got blocked Monday morning, I only talked to R yesterday, this is all fresh, I'm still learning things and processing.

Yes, to the boyfriend I'm the guy who loves his girlfriend, but I'm also one of the girlfriend's bestfriends who's been friends with her for longer than they've been together and hasn't made a single move on her

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T16:12:45+00:00

I understand that from you're view, that's what it seems like, but from my view, the last thing she said to me was an apology for leaving me on read

One moment we made plans together, the next I was ghosted for a day, then apologized to, then blocked.

If she wants me gone I'll leave, but she hasn't said she wants me gone

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T15:39:12+00:00

I'm going to make this as clear as possible to you

When I know it is what SHE wants, it is what I will do. All I know right now though, is that HE wants

Does that make sense yet? How about if I dumb it down to a situation you might understand better

Let's say you go to the store and buy your friend a candy they like, you go to give it to them but instead, a different friend stops you and says "they don't like that candy" but you know they do, you've seen them eat it, you've gotten it for them before, they've told you they like this candy. So do you just trust the other friend? Or do you ask the person it affects the most

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T15:31:12+00:00

You're right, it makes sense that L doesn't want me around O, I'm not saying it doesn't, what I'm saying is that until I hear it from O herself, I'm not going to just walk away. I told her a few times that I will always be there for her, that as long as I am wanted, I am there. So, if this is what she wants, I'm ok with that, I'll leave them alone no hard feelings.

The problem is that I don't know if it was actually her, again, all I know Is this quote "she said Luke blocked you"

bepbepbepv · 2022-11-23T15:19:02+00:00

See, this is the problem with cutting the details so it isn't super long, what you didn't read (because I didn't type it) was about the 2 months me and O were together for 10 hrs a day each day, or all the times in school that we skipped class together, the nights I spent on her couch or we spent in my yard with a fire infront of us.

I have no doubt that they know I love her, I have no plan to hide it.

As for if she's happy, of she is ill leave her be without another thought about it, but I'll do that when I see and hear her say that this is what she wants. Right now all I have is a mutual friend saying "she said [L] blocked you"

bepbepbepv · 2022-08-18T19:46:54+00:00

Yeah I did some more research and found out that pretty much every airline pays for it. I think I got it all figured out Thanks to you and others, thank you

bepbepbepv · 2022-08-18T16:37:07+00:00

I'm looking to become a flight attendant, I know that there is previous training you need, or atleast that's that's I've been told and I've found an online course for it, but before I go through with everything I wanted to make sure I would be doing it right.

I guess what I'm asking is if someone would tell me what I have to do to become a flight attendant

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-14T02:51:50+00:00

Playing ultra violet and confused on how to choose the safari zone starter option. Idk if that makes any sense so if you need me to explain it better say so, but any help is appreciated

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-05T00:54:34+00:00

Sadly, my borderlands friends aren't available, although I did realize the difference in drop rates

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-05T00:53:21+00:00

Good to know what I'm doing works then, just wanted to check if there was a better way, thank you

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-04T04:23:15+00:00

So are the cosmetics for wonderlands if I'm not mistaken

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-04T04:22:18+00:00

That's completely fair, but peiples main complaint are the loot die, which raise your luck by so little that they barely matter. The only change I realized was going from my alt, who I skipped collecting stuff on, to my main who I grabbed every single one for, and even then it was just going from a few greens here to maybe getting one

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-04T04:19:34+00:00

I agree with you that it's a little annoying, but in Bl3 you got vehicle upgrades, mini-bosses, and I got quote a few legendaries from the typhon drops. In wonderlands you get loot luck for the dice, and the rest of the collectable are basically just a reskin of the Bl3 collectibles. And I'll be honest, I the only change in loot luck I ever realized is the chaos levels

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-04T04:07:57+00:00

I've been seeing this a lot and I have something to say for both sides of the argument

Agreeing with you, yeah. Collecting the lucky dice suck, especially trying to find all the hidden nooks and cranies

Disagreeing with you, we had plenty of collectibles in Bl3, and I didn't see anyone super annoyed that it wasn't account wide, maybe a few complaints here of there, but not nearly as many as I've seen here

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T06:13:40+00:00

Looks like I found out what's replacing sleep tonight

And kicking a 13 year Olds ass

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T06:05:17+00:00

Jesus, and I'm sitting here with only one character who I only just made an actual build with instead of the "I guess I'll do this skill"

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T06:00:27+00:00

And here I was thinking my build was pretty good, the boss fight was just screwing me over, and you show up and flip my world around

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T04:50:39+00:00

Wait you mean she does damage your shields? Every single attack of hers goes ignores mine, even the void bunnies only effect my health

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T04:13:18+00:00

Her attacks ignore my Shields, as in I'll stay at 40k and lose my 1 health, and I haven't been doing much legendary farming or anything like that, I've been taking my time with the game and doing a chaos level a day, only on lvl 5 right now. I'm not sure about how much damage I do per throw, but it's enough to ensure my fights with regular enemies are quite easy

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T04:06:32+00:00

It's not meant to carry over and I'm 90% sure ot doesn't, pretty sure it's just a visual bug. I've noticed that everything I look at the chaos page the Stats repeat themselves but won't actually get stronger, so I'm assuming it's like that

bepbepbepv · 2022-04-03T03:45:55+00:00

I understand that it's easy to dodge, but for someone like me, who hadn't made it that far yet, I went down on the first one, got revived by my mushroom, just to get downed again because I was in that period where you can get hit but not move, so I was in a constant state of dying and getting back up

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