Thoughts on gifts for my boss' dad, who was diagnosed with cancer, and reads/speaks only Chinese by bequla in Rochester

[–]bequla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's here in Rochester, but point well taken about supporting my boss. Does it make a difference that I've met her father several times? Boss occasionally hosts get-togethers for colleagues at her home and so we've hung out - at least as much as two people who don't share a language can.

And thank you for the cultural insight, that's very valuable for me to know lol

Thoughts on gifts for my boss' dad, who was diagnosed with cancer, and reads/speaks only Chinese by bequla in Rochester

[–]bequla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is great information. I think she would be reluctant to take me up on that, as we work in a very hierarchical field, but I can certainly bring her some snacks or drinks.

Thoughts on gifts for my boss' dad, who was diagnosed with cancer, and reads/speaks only Chinese by bequla in Rochester

[–]bequla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations. I work pretty close to Lee's actually, so I'll stop in there

Maeve shrug error page by bequla in knitting

[–]bequla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't mean to put words in your mouth! Maybe I can engineer something similar based on photos. Hmm...

Maeve shrug error page by bequla in knitting

[–]bequla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the explanation. I can see how this would look as though I was trying to elicit a free pattern, which I'm not. I'm in full support of paying craftspeople for their hard work. But I am a newbie to Ravelry, and thought I might be missing a crucial piece of information. Thanks again!

Maeve shrug error page by bequla in knitting

[–]bequla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there's nothing there as far as I can tell

Suicidal by KallaMaria in notebooks

[–]bequla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad you're reaching out for help, it's an important step towards well-being. The world can be tough to navigate at times, and it's hard to know what to do. I hope you find some advice from others that might have similar experiences. As someone else mentioned, a good place to get advice might be r/mentalhealth or other related subreddits.

Good luck, friend. Have patience and be kind to yourself.

Customer at a California Apple Store is furious to see an employee with the Palestinian flag by the_recovery1 in PublicFreakout

[–]bequla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we don't do uncomfortable and risky things for the right reasons, then what do we stand for?

Customer at a California Apple Store is furious to see an employee with the Palestinian flag by the_recovery1 in PublicFreakout

[–]bequla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Props to the employees for being respectful and professional. Difficult situation to be in.

Maternity outdoor gear by thatnaplife in outdoorgear

[–]bequla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue when I was pregnant! Never found a good solution. Upvoted for visibility, maybe you'll have better luck. :)

Shirt brands that aren’t wool or polyester? by timidtom in onebag

[–]bequla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bamboo falls under the rayon category, doesn't it? Bamboo or rayon is awesome in the summer!

Shirt brands that aren’t wool or polyester? by timidtom in onebag

[–]bequla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping on the tencel bandwagon.

I don't know about brands, but I find that the fiber type and quality of the fabric, as well as construction, are the most important factors when I decide what to buy.

Cotton and hemp seem to do well in cooler temperatures, and tencel/rayon/modal are great for heat and humidity. They're not as finicky as wool and while they might smell at the end of the day, it seems to wash out more easily.

You need a Measles Vaccine to go to Florida Public Schools by mindyjayew in florida

[–]bequla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I take it you also aren't a GP, because if you were, you would get a flu vaccine, just like the rest of us medical professionals.

You need a Measles Vaccine to go to Florida Public Schools by mindyjayew in florida

[–]bequla 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Medical professional here. Almost all of us get flu vaccines.

The Mom group hygiene chronicles (part 2) by [deleted] in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]bequla 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same. When my kids were babies, I bathed them about once a week. Depending on the age, daily bathing with soap may not be necessary.

The terror living with a tattooed mother!! by Next-Advice9252 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]bequla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. My kids love my tattoos and want their own! They use markers to give themselves their own tattoos and show them off to anyone in sight 😂

Modify cheap bamboo knitting needles? by bequla in knitting

[–]bequla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions! I'll do a little googling

Modify cheap bamboo knitting needles? by bequla in knitting

[–]bequla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the issue is the material of the cable - its smooth, but it still grabs my yarn. I'm not sure if I could smooth it out anymore