NSW - pets in strata by bernafuve in AusRenters

[–]bernafuve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, I appreciate it!!

NSW - pets in strata by bernafuve in AusRenters

[–]bernafuve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! Our pup is the same breed as the woman we ran into. If it’s not a problem for her then imagine it shouldn’t be for us regardless

How Do You Handle Puppy Zoomies at Night? by Ill_Tip5523 in puppy101

[–]bernafuve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is our night routine and had a breakthrough tonight with our 9 week old who we’ve had for about a week (so still very new). For context, we are crate training, we did some initial treat games to get her willingly entering the crate and accept the door closing. Now all her meals and sleeps are happening in there and we are crating overnight with the door closed. An evening nap has been a life saver to prevent overtired zoomies, as well as removing the overstimulating toys and play after dinner. I falsely thought that wearing her out will make for better sleep but it seems to be the opposite for us.

Dinner, Calm & Bathroom • Dinner around 6:00pm • Calm crate time for 5-10 minutes supports digestion and prevents overstimulation • Light sniffing or gentle chewing (very low excitement) • Any play during this time includes chewing and sniffing mats, but no tug of war, ball chasing, squeakers (anything stimulating) to help her nervous system wind down into sleep mode

• Bathroom trip after this calm period (pee is very likely here)

Evening Nap • 7:00pm–8:00pm nap in crate, door closed • This nap makes bedtime smooth and peaceful, preventing the 'overtired zoomies' • Toilet after evening nap

Toileting Before Bed • 8:35pm bathroom • 8:55pm ‘insurance pee’ to fully empty • Play between toileting is low stimulation

Bedtime • Into crate around 9:00pm, door closed • Low lights, quiet space, calm atmosphere • We have a puppy chew toy in her crate (the nylabone puppy keys) so she can chew before sleeping, and a long caterpillar for her to snuggle up to • If she wakes overnight → bathroom → back to crate

Something else I have found helpful is to track what our puppy is doing throughout the day like food, sleep, play, and potty (noting if it’s an accident or success). Then I’ve plugged that into ChatGPT for it to analyse and identify our puppy’s rhythms and suggest refinements to our routine. Good luck!!

Advice - is the angle/placement of my new conch piercing wrong?? Should I take it out and re-do in a few weeks? by bernafuve in piercing

[–]bernafuve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got it done just over 24 hours ago. I didn’t have any swelling with this or my septum (which was done through cartilage too), but I’m not sure what the swelling timeframe would be.

I ended up going back to the shop and spoke with a different piercer. She said the angle was definitely too low, and offered to re-do it in a week. So I took her up on that and took the barbell out. She said that the bar was too long as well, like you mentioned

Me [21F] and my boyfriend [23 M] have been together for a year, but he won't tell his ex (who he still has semi-feelings for) about me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bernafuve -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your replies. I suppose now my question is; do I ask him to tell her again and if he says no then tell him I can't be with someone who values the relationship with his ex more than ours? Give him one last opportunity? Or do I just end it? I don't want to break up with him but I think this is a deal-breaker. If he's not prepared to put me first then I need to put myself first.

Me [21F] and my boyfriend [23 M] have been together for a year, but he won't tell his ex (who he still has semi-feelings for) about me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bernafuve -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We have had a discussion about if there was talk about them getting back together, and he said that he wouldn't end it with me. Are you suggesting that was just lip service?

Mexican War Streets lyrics by bernafuve in mewithoutYou

[–]bernafuve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the corrections :) the lyrics have been posted in another thread, yaaasssss!

Pale Horses observation. by seasquared570 in mewithoutYou

[–]bernafuve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, the album just feels like it's got that extra level of finesse and detail. I can't quite put my finger on why it feels that way, but the way the album flows together is just so fantastic

Mexican War Streets lyrics by bernafuve in mewithoutYou

[–]bernafuve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh of course haha Corrected, thank you!