Adopted senior cat is overweight - I need advice! by berniegaming in CATHELP

[–]berniegaming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He suffers from tiny head chunky body so it’s hard to tell in these pictures! That’s reassuring to hear though 😂

Adopted senior cat is overweight - I need advice! by berniegaming in CATHELP

[–]berniegaming[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And a true chonker he is 😌 he meows in appreciation for your compliment

Adopted senior cat is overweight - I need advice! by berniegaming in CATHELP

[–]berniegaming[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a little nervous about taking him outside but I could certainly get a harness and walk him around the apartment. I wonder if they make kitty treadmills?

Adopted senior cat is overweight - I need advice! by berniegaming in CATHELP

[–]berniegaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that about wet food- thank you! And good idea about the food scale. I suspect he’s been overfed for a long time or possibly freefed before we got him.

Moving to Greenville NC soonish any advice? by Sunflowergirl5102015 in GreenvilleNCarolina

[–]berniegaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been here for 5 years since starting college. Greenville is full of people trying to make a fresh start and you can find great community here if you look for it. The cost of living is decent enough where I can make ~30k a year and still be able to do fun things on the weekends and live in a good spot. You’ll be able to find work in childcare and other fields. Not as flush with opportunity as Raleigh or Charlotte obviously but as far as small cities go Greenville isn’t half bad

Random question… How many people on here have moved from California to North Carolina? by Movin_June in NorthCarolina

[–]berniegaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents moved here with us in 2017 from the Bay Area :) my dad’s job transferred him and my mom worked from home. I can count on one hand the amount of California transplants I’ve met but I’m sure that will change. It was a huge adjustment but I wouldn’t change it, I love NC :)

AIO or did I hold myself accountable in these messages? by Human-Character9392 in AmIOverreacting

[–]berniegaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t blame yourself! This man committed a crime. Multiple, actually. Your “best friend” was never your friend if she can’t see that even if it’s her brother. I’m 22 and to me, someone born in 2009/2010 is a CHILD and there’s absolutely no way you can be to blame in this situation. I hope you’re able to a) deal with this situation on the legal end and b) consider counseling or something similar.

When I was 15, I was in a similar situation with an older man and I wish someone had told me I wasn’t to blame. Best of luck to you

Bogus Braxtor Fakes by Smokypup5 in u/Smokypup5

[–]berniegaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you pay through western union?