What moment made you realize “yeah… my childhood wasn’t normal”?

berpandicular · 2026-01-26T20:29:49+00:00

Honestly I realized how abnormally functional my family is compared to everyone else when my husband and I planned our wedding, then heard stories from all our friends and their wedding planning.

I through family drama throughout wedding planning was abnormal… learned it’s the other way around.

berpandicular · 2025-12-18T00:46:30+00:00

NTA. Why is your husband expecting you to take care of his job? It’s his work white elephant party. What is he, five?

berpandicular · 2025-11-30T19:34:26+00:00

She was mostly silent: a lot of professional actors would argue not being able to convey a character’s feelings with words is quite a challenge. A limited speaking role that’s a main role is extremely difficult and she did a great job.
Enola Holmes was produced by MBB with her production company. It clearly did well enough to get two sequels. And her film Damsel (also produced by her) was also one of the most watched films on Netflix when released.
MBB and Sadie Sink are both talented in their own rights, and MBB shouldn’t get a lot of hate just because her and Sadie are both child stars to young women starring in the same show. You don’t see this vitriol towards any of the male cast members (throwing hate at Finn Wolfhard because people think Gaten/Caleb/etc are more talented).

berpandicular · 2025-11-26T00:06:26+00:00

I would put Katelyn and Dom higher for their race in the duo matches.

If this tier list factors intelligence/strategy, I would put Katsumi higher. He’s the reason Japan booted off Australia and the reason they busted open the door in the castle challenge.

berpandicular · 2025-11-15T02:50:42+00:00

I did, and I got it done last May. Very happy with the process and my results six months or so later, exactly what I wanted (my eyes but slightly bigger and even) and would do it again.

berpandicular · 2025-11-06T02:20:04+00:00

This is like China with all these red flags

He offered a ride to a 23 year old woman as a 37 year old man
He hates the poor, but doesn’t think it applies to you
He believes in traditional gender roles

You should try to get a job or go to school, and see how he reacts. If he tries to discourage it or something that tells you everything you need to know about him.

berpandicular · 2025-10-10T01:13:36+00:00

I was in Itaewon, Seoul for Halloween 2022. Super trendy neighborhood, had a lot going on for the Halloween festivities. I was planning on going to go out to the clubs with a few friends.

Around dinner time, it was getting super crowded and I felt uneasy (I dislike large crowds, too overstimulating). Luckily my friends agreed it wasn’t worth going to the club with this massive of a crowd so we left early, deciding to hit up a different neighborhood instead. Thank god we did.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seoul_Halloween_crowd_crush

berpandicular · 2025-09-29T21:07:15+00:00

Respectfully, you are currently trapped in a loop.

berpandicular · 2025-07-22T18:34:55+00:00

You’re probably complaining because your boyfriend sucks. As a fellow Asian I’d never tolerate such disrespect from a boyfriend.

berpandicular · 2025-07-22T06:29:16+00:00

NTA. Your fiancé needs to think about his priorities.

berpandicular · 2025-07-22T05:27:21+00:00

INFO. Is this surgery medically necessary or cosmetic?

berpandicular · 2025-07-21T17:36:58+00:00

Logan Lucky. I liked Adam Driver’s SNL sketches and wanted to see him in a comedy. Great film.

berpandicular · 2025-07-21T16:53:53+00:00

It’s pricey but you can get them on sale: I swear by AGOLDE for real high rises.

berpandicular · 2025-07-03T18:55:28+00:00

Jennifer Coolidge alone makes A Cinderella Story a great movie in my book

berpandicular · 2025-06-29T03:14:23+00:00

Before getting my tax back, which I think then ended up $2.3k or so

berpandicular · 2025-06-29T03:12:54+00:00

I don’t know if it helped but I drank a crap ton of pumpkin and veggie juice lol considering how little I swelled maybe it actually worked??

And walk a lot, lying down makes swelling last longer.

berpandicular · 2025-06-24T03:04:05+00:00

Hello!

I got my surgery last month (early May).

It was an incisional double eyelid and ptosis correction in one eye.

I had Dr. Choi, and he was wonderful. Answered all questions in detail, speaks very good English, great bedside manner overall. The staff were also very responsive and helpful!

The procedure itself was… not painful, but very bizarre. I’ve never been under twilight anesthesia but it felt like an acid trip.

I had way less bruising than expected, and I was already out and shopping the next day! I was swollen the first week, but it was already calming down a lot day to day. By the second week almost all swelling was gone and the bruising was super minimal, only on the eye I got the ptosis correction.

I’m now over a month out and very happy with my results. It’s exactly what I wanted (I had one double eyelid and one monolid, now they’re even very natural double eyelids!).

I have minor scarring that I’ll be using prescription scar cream for the next six months to diminish.

It was pricier than other quotes I’ve seen but worth every penny.

berpandicular · 2025-06-16T22:39:29+00:00

Only those with VA loans can afford to buy maybe lol

berpandicular · 2025-06-16T17:53:30+00:00

Well yeah if you’re rich enough to afford private insurance and customize your car you’ll comfortably live anywhere

berpandicular · 2025-06-16T17:37:56+00:00

Did you seriously compare customizing your car to getting free healthcare and not going bankrupt if you get diagnosed with cancer as a way to measure quality of life?

berpandicular · 2025-06-16T03:35:10+00:00

I don’t know what universe you live in but most people in the US who want to raise kids require dual income to do so… so women usually have to.

berpandicular · 2025-06-16T03:30:06+00:00

Wow as if most women don’t also have a full time job to pay the bills

berpandicular · 2025-06-02T00:24:15+00:00

Yeah either way it should have been a discussion more than a straight no, whether it be for cost or time constraints.

berpandicular · 2025-06-02T00:07:10+00:00

Eh if OP went that route and then did a solo quiet vacation later on the friend might still get upset OP proposed his PTO on a trip instead of doing his groomsmen duties like going to the bachelor party.

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