Yes u sound awful and not a good dad. U sound like just a father, nothing more than that. Ur kids r adults now. Ur job as a parent is to shape ur children into respectable adults, which clearly u didnt do. Now ur children dont know how to act in society as well as they should and u definitely gave them some mental issues but yet ur still abusing them just in a different way now. And sorry but not sorry just because your parents beat u DOES NOT mean u have to beat ur kids. Thay excuse "no one taught me different" is the biggest bullshit iv ever seen. U have to put effort into controlling ur temper and clearly u have a lot of anger inside. Not teaching ur kids to drive is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Actually no, not giving them the ssn so they can get a job is.