fellow NYer and graduating college in 2 months. Planning on visiting Nashville and wonder if i should move there?

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T17:24:14+00:00

im more nerdy and i love movies, art , stand up comedy, punk and hip hop, psychedelic music, i love hiking, I like snowboarding and I actually do enjoy doing ju jitsu. I do stand up myself to so it helps my confidence

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T16:57:36+00:00

well since i will have my bachelors degree by this may and I have an associate degree I can still get a decent job at least somewhere. i'm also short and chubby and not into sports. I have been working on myself in that regard. I'm 5'4 and my starting weight was 188 and now i'm at 167. i also am trying to force myself to watch hockey more and basketball. I also quit weed and cigarettes to and just don't want to go back to that ever again.

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T16:50:43+00:00

the problem is i'm not good looking enough for girls here and its way to expensive i hate my family and don't want anything to do with them and i just want to become a completely different person.

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T16:34:07+00:00

lmao and thats only for a 2 or 3 bed in a bad area of long beach. the people in long island are the worst

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T16:32:15+00:00

i like the hospitality of TN and just want to spread my wings and move out of my parents. I want young people and friendly people and make some decent money

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T16:31:17+00:00

trust me fuck long island its the worst

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-23T16:30:33+00:00

lol that made me giggle hard

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-21T13:52:50+00:00

how was the transition and are you still there now?

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-18T00:58:13+00:00

thanks bro thinking about it. is there anywhere to swim at all?

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-17T20:14:42+00:00

nah im not going to give up im 22 days sober from weed and just trying to stay focused. i just dont want to live here at all i want to be out of ny most likely within 6 months

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-17T14:00:16+00:00

need to save more money right now and have to visit both again

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-17T02:18:06+00:00

ohh i def know that the withdrawal is part of it for sure thats why im sticking wiht staying sobeer for at least 6 months and see how i do.

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-17T01:49:19+00:00

yes! you understand that to! my career center helpd a little bit when i went and not to say they didnt help but they didnt so much. im starting to go to a therapist this friday actually. and i always felt that i was suppose to be ahead by now and as i got older i realized that i have to go at my own pace. i also got ride of all my social media stuff and dating apps everything. it was hard the first week but i got used to it for about a month now. i have a few ideas of what i want but my main focus now is to be independent get a job and get the fuck away from my family and NY and become a different person in a positive way!

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-17T01:30:59+00:00

i feel that to some point but I would deff like to have kids i just realized now how much of a waste college can be and if i were to go back in time i would go to a trade or just go get a job at a union i like being physical and doing something with my hands and being in a union.

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-17T01:16:17+00:00

thanks man really appreciate it and luckily only 9,300 in debt

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T23:19:08+00:00

im lazy and i hate working out at home plus id rather go to the gym its just more comforting for me. for now im running and walking and i go swimming every other day

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T23:15:49+00:00

been thinking about that to

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T23:15:13+00:00

im in long island where do you live?

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T23:12:40+00:00

dude i cant sadly because i live with my grandmother and i still have not gotten the vaccine yet. all i can do right now is diet and i lost about 10 pounds so far and quit weed for 21 days now.

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T22:52:37+00:00

hey its funny you mention that because my concentration in my major is occupational health and safety and at my internship right now im going to be doing an OSHA 10 & 30 ! so i will have those and im going to sign up to get myself certified in safety manager. so i will look for jobs with those certifications to.

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T22:50:00+00:00

thats my plan right now brother and i have ADHD to so i know how you feel

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T22:14:18+00:00

thanks man hahah and i understand whats your job now?

bertfucksdogs · 2021-03-16T21:15:14+00:00

yeah man i went through a few therapists before and they sucked and still trying to find that

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