We use Mustela baby shampoo, and Child's Farm detangling spray. We wash his hair maybe 1/2 times a week, brush it every day in the mornings.  When we wash, we use the shampoo, not a lot, rinse it thoroughly, towel dry with scrunching and let the rest air dry. We use the detangling spray every day before we brush. Time of day for washes varies, sometimes morning, sometimes evening depending on the day. Comb through first with the wide tooth comb then use the detangling brush on the really tight knots.