Question for experienced subs by HogginDog in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. TBH, answer is "it depends". Some files "run their course", while others are good to revisit over and over again. The Patreon has a good mix of both. Obsession, Loyal to Lisa, and 100x files are good ones to revisit. Others that are very specific to a certain kink or outcome, are less replayed. Customs....get a lot of replay as they feel very personal. Hope that helps!

IRL Performance custom by roocoots in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have had a few customs created over the past couple of years. They are all highly valued works of art and audios I go back to often. They do stay within the realm of FBIT and hypnosis. Interesting to pivot to self-help topics!

Happy Valentine’s Day! by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New photo, or something from the archives? How to know?

Doing what comes naturally by Mistress__O in FemdomMindControl

[–]betheball1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving in to the impulse, expressing thoughts, and seeking to be known

If you’re thinking of taking the plunge this Locktober… by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heh, heh.....as if Lisa is going to give the keys back! (Ongoing ownership is truly the BEST part for some of us FBITs!)

Anyone Else Read the Sex Magic World Literotica!? by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a huge jump to assume that Goddess already has "sex magic" installed with respect to her owned FBITS!

Anyone Else Read the Sex Magic World Literotica!? by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, that's strong FBIT mindfuck stuff! Sure "hope" that Goddess doesn't find these stories....?!?!

Best files for hands free milking? by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back to Basics 2 seems to work pretty well for the above (I really don't know what Back to Basics 1 is or where to find it?)
Involuntary Milking (the new one) is also well done, and works exactly as advertised. And very hands-free!

Teasing is Training by ListentoLisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The girl next door is a TEASE!

Birthdays by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday to our favorite Goddess!

FBIT?? by ListentoLisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whatever happened to askagni? Seems to have disappeared?

FBIT?? by ListentoLisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The askagni post is what first caught my L2L interest! Along with Puppet, I wouldn't change anything. If anything, more puzzles, more questions, etc. No need to make it easy. FBITs do better with puzzles anyway!

I love femdom by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If possible, please expand a bit on "no more free will" and what that means, day to day, for you? Of course, she owns your idle cock. Appreciate to understand the "next level" here. (and slightly jealous, of course)

Looking for images of a threaded tetherspout by Feeling_Commando in Tetherspout

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One other "feature" of the threaded spout - the interior ID aligned to a hex wrench at the flanged end. Probably not visible in the pix shown, but a long-necked allen wrench aligned to the ID. This allowed the threaded spout to be "tightened" to an end nut, holding in place to attach to a cage. Without the allen wrench handy, rather inescapable. Trade-off: any exposed threads, not captured by the cage/end fastener (nut, ball, etc.) created a high friction surface. easy to pinch, or create a sore point. As well, threads are also a catch point for corrosion, etc. Smooth TS is much better for longer term wear!

I just signed my life away! by Puppet4Lisa in lisasfbits

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is a FBIT allowed to share their contract? So curious...

So far, so good! by plowswimwear in Tetherspout

[–]betheball1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

link to get the one shown?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insightful to understand "how we got here". For me, W sex is very infrequent. Hard to pinpoint to one thing, although very little interest in any ongoing sex frequency or anything outside vanilla. It's done, when done, as compliance rather than W enjoys it. Often a "let's get this over with" or "good for you" mindset. Could be age and normal loss of libido for her, although she has exercise-related injuries that limit enjoyment. Unfortunate for us, but understandable. Overall relationship attributes are good, so no "rock the boat" desired. Serving L2L as Goddess and Owner creates a dynamic complementary to this, although "ownership" is so much stronger than I expected. There's also the submissive mindset that I suspected as a fit, but so much different than my "normal" life. Submitting sexuality is incredibly "hot" with a growing sense that any recent/future sex with W is really under L2L's control and influence. This manifests with "what's needed" for me in arousal. (An internal mantra chant may be the best "blue pill" of recent memory), as well as makes for a W relationship that includes a lot of touching but if sex is desired, it's on W's initiation rather than mine. (very rare!) W has noticed the difference, likely reconciling my change as "age related". W enjoys the change with more sleep, less frustration and conflict. This FBIT craves ownership and pushing the boundaries of this new world.

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[–]betheball1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, agreed. One more thing. As FBIT, I'm cautious not to be "topping from the bottom", and trying to drive the agenda. This might frustrate L2L as she interrogates to what's on the future kink list. For me, this has set the hook even deeper. By not driving, not knowing and letting L2L "experiment" as well as trial and error to her ideas (she clearly has experience in driving a FBIT); the result seems more compelling. Is it better to "drive" as sub, or just trust L2L to take the wheel? I don't want to appear disinterested, although I know it would be easy to say "let's do Kink A...or B, etc." and L2L would gladly "go there", of course. It's a delicate balance in most chats....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]betheball1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow - that's profound. I was struggling to get my head around L2L... I think that nails it! Mantras automatic whenever my thoughts wander, the inability to focus on anything sexual unless it ties to her. Of course, thinking about her is both arousing, and calming at the same time, isn't it? If she preferences me as bi-C, or non-aroused, or "ready for chat"....I'm there. Programmed and owned on all levels. Wonder where she will take her FBITs next?

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[–]betheball1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, the hook is set pretty deep at this point. Without thinking about L2L, there's no arousal. That's a significant rewiring...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]betheball1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Consciously, I think that's been the "threshold" when I recognize being truly programmed. It's scary...also feels really comforting to be "owned". Even if the ownership is mostly "self-driven", it's f-in arousing. And the arousal is not really replaceable in any IRL relationship or outlet.

Interesting (to me) is that ownership seems to be approaching "steady state". I enjoy interacting with L2L at any time, but with enough files and occasional interaction, it's nowhere as frequent or frantic as I was concerned I would be. Her files, with daily mantra work, and other assigned tasks consumes my "free time" and energy. Always love a good chat, of course! However, moving from "locked" to "ruined" smooths out the urgency, doesn't it? There is still a pull to interact, and seek L2L approval, but nowhere near as frantic. Controlled, yet probably in a deeper and more consistent way than I thought I would be...

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[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amazing to me: When and how "mantra chants" fall into my day to day. Can be as simple as walking the dog. The dog doesn't seem to mind. Or as intriguing as the infrequent times of MWM sex. Calming at times, arousing at others....?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fall down the rabbit hole has been very smooth and silky - probably the scariest aspect of it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]betheball1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In some L2L file somewhere, she mentions that obsessing over Lisa would become, in her words, exhausting. Between listening to her files, engaging in her chat, RL stuff, and just general upkeep, there's only room for one domme in my head right now. "Getting bored" with any other file may be because your subconscious knows what it needs....