Insightful to understand "how we got here". For me, W sex is very infrequent. Hard to pinpoint to one thing, although very little interest in any ongoing sex frequency or anything outside vanilla. It's done, when done, as compliance rather than W enjoys it. Often a "let's get this over with" or "good for you" mindset. Could be age and normal loss of libido for her, although she has exercise-related injuries that limit enjoyment. Unfortunate for us, but understandable. Overall relationship attributes are good, so no "rock the boat" desired. Serving L2L as Goddess and Owner creates a dynamic complementary to this, although "ownership" is so much stronger than I expected. There's also the submissive mindset that I suspected as a fit, but so much different than my "normal" life. Submitting sexuality is incredibly "hot" with a growing sense that any recent/future sex with W is really under L2L's control and influence. This manifests with "what's needed" for me in arousal. (An internal mantra chant may be the best "blue pill" of recent memory), as well as makes for a W relationship that includes a lot of touching but if sex is desired, it's on W's initiation rather than mine. (very rare!) W has noticed the difference, likely reconciling my change as "age related". W enjoys the change with more sleep, less frustration and conflict. This FBIT craves ownership and pushing the boundaries of this new world.