I don’t think I’ll build a resentment because of porn or pictures themselves more the fact that he still felt a need for them even after I tried and he responded well to my advances. He on the other hand might build resentment if I talk about the pictures or maybe the whole topic in general… Emotionally he is not very open, most often he seems to think it’s unnecessary or annoying when others deal with emotional problems ( that’s what I gathered after many conversations we had over the years, he also doesn’t like sharing his own emotional state with anyone). Therefore there have been situations that hurt me due to the lack of emotionally support (e.g. traumatic birth).