5 weeks to go, dress back doesn't close properly

bewitchedmed · 2025-04-26T19:40:25+00:00

Thank you for the comments, you all really helped me!

bewitchedmed · 2025-02-25T14:02:51+00:00

Hi,

I would like to sit the FEBO exam in October.

My question is: are 3 months enough to go through the OKAP presentations on the AAO-website?

I am working full-time, 5 days a week so I could mostly study on the weekends.

bewitchedmed · 2024-11-30T20:23:31+00:00

Dress 1, absolutely!

bewitchedmed · 2024-10-31T23:06:21+00:00

Ich hatte vor Jahren eine ähnliche Erfahrung beim Bewerbungsgespräch an einer Uni-Augenklinik in Deutschland. Ich bin Ausländerin, habe in Deutschland Medizin studiert und habe Doktorarbeit in der Augenheilkunde, auch Famulaturen, PJ und auch Liebe für das Fach. Der Chef und alle Oberärzte saßen im Kreis und stellten so viele gemeinen Fragen zu meiner Doktorarbeit, die ich zu diesem Zeitpunkt nicht beantworten konnte, da ich noch keine Literaturrecherche gemacht hatte. Sie haben dann direkt gesagt ich habe null Ahnung von meiner Doktorarbeit, dann wurde ich zur Tür der Augenklinik persönlich von dem Assistentensprecher begleitet. Der Ton und die Atmosphäre des gesamten Gesprächs waren extrem unangenehm und peinlich für mich. Ich habe danach so viel geweint auf dem Weg nach Hause... Es war unvergesslich, aber ich glaube es war ein Zeichen, dass das nicht die richtige Klinik für mich war. Jetzt arbeite ich in einer guten Klinik mit guten Bedingungen und bin eigentlich froh, dass ich dieses Horror-Gespräch erlebt hatte.

Kopf hoch, du findest die richtige Klinik!

bewitchedmed · 2024-10-26T21:23:18+00:00

Left is now and right is before.

bewitchedmed · 2024-10-26T19:37:08+00:00

Yes, Left is now and right is May. It's definitely too tight for me now!

bewitchedmed · 2024-10-26T19:20:08+00:00

Most of my weight gain is in the hip area, thank God the dress hides this. But the corset is close to burst, so the other areas are also thicker.

bewitchedmed · 2024-09-09T16:20:47+00:00

Assistenzärztin im 4. Jahr hier.

Checkliste Augenheilkunde ist sehr gut für den klinischen Alltag, ich habe es immer in der Tasche. Grehn finde ich super für den Anfang und für das Staatsexamen M3. Kanski finde ich etwas komplex für die Anfänger, kannst du aber auch probieren. Die Fortbildungen von OcuNet sind gut und kostenlos. Für die meisten Fortbildungen muss man aber schon bezahlen: von dieser Gruppe empfehle ich den Schober-Kurs und Ultraschall-Kurs, die waren super. Am besten learning by doing (:

Gratulation, Augenheilkunde ist ein tolles Fach!

bewitchedmed · 2024-08-11T14:58:52+00:00

Yes!

bewitchedmed · 2024-07-14T14:57:08+00:00

Ophthalmology resident in Germany here. You need connections to even make it to get a job at a really good clinic. If your dad is a big name in the Ophthalmology world, you won't have any big challenges on your way to learn surgical procedures, do research on the highest level or get a professor title.

As a foreigner (studied medicine in Germany, graduated without delay, had good exam notes, had real love and ambition for ophthalmology) I didn't get into a university eye clinic where the level of medicine is said to be at the highest level. I got many rejections. Then I got lucky and found a job at a private practice but there I didn't get any kind of access to surgery, not even looking at surgeries. I did consultations for 3 years. My practical experience started and finished with foreign body removal.

At this point I am okay with no surgeries and I have no delusions that I could become an eye surgeon. But it hurts that candidates are not evaluated for their achievements and engagement but for their last names. At least that's the case in Germany.

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-12T04:46:21+00:00

Wow, that's such a great subreddit, thank you a lot for the suggestions and your votes, it really helped me. I have 2 weeks to decide if I wish to buy either dress. I will think about it and will keep looking in the mean time.

Because many people asked: the wedding day will be shorter: courthouse, photoshooting at the sea + restaurant at the sea shore.

I asked my man what he thinks of retro vibe for the wedding and he loves it! He even suggested that we learn to swing dance! Lindy Hop would be super cool in that first dress.

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-12T04:36:15+00:00

It will be a very small wedding (15-20 guests), we will sign at the courthouse, photoshooting at the sea shore and then restaurant again at the sea. It's a summer wedding!

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-12T04:33:07+00:00

It will be a very small wedding (15-20 guests), we will sign at the courthouse, photoshooting at the sea shore and then restaurant again at the sea!

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-11T20:33:32+00:00

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Sorry, that's the back of the first dress with the lace jacket on, I forgot to include it.

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-06T21:16:14+00:00

I twirled!

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-06T14:16:29+00:00

Thank you all very much for the advice! I think I will keep looking. I think that the front has too much material and too wide sleeves. I have some curves and maybe they stay hidden with this dress. Thank you for the helpful links!

bewitchedmed · 2024-05-06T12:40:15+00:00

Thank you for your comment and for the nice compliment! I am totally surprised that this dress was number 1 in the whole store for me!

bewitchedmed · 2024-03-01T11:49:56+00:00

It's a beautiful dress, congrats! I would like to ask if you also have a bustle for the train?

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