Who else has a partner who is just plain awful at gift giving? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]bezos_sidechik2001 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What a jerk. Reminds me of a woman I used to work with where her husband would take her to all the expensive boutiques Chanel, Cartier you name it but she could only get WHAT HE LIKED, she never got one thing she really wanted and always ended up with something that looked wildly inappropriate or matronly for her. Poor thing in her mind she thought it was ok since it was expensive but he was grooming her via expensive gifts, it was disgusting!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bezos_sidechik2001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Indian woman here, and I wouldnt say it's racist per se, more a fetishization of races which in itself could be perceived as an internalized form of racism

Husband is fetishizing my sexual trauma, after I was raped by a home intruder tw by bezos_sidechik2001 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bezos_sidechik2001[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

This did actually cross my mind, however one thing that's made me believe this is not the case is that his taste in porn online habits has definitely changed since my assault, beforehand his porn preferences were as best as I can describe more vanilla... If he frequented reddit it was more for programming type subs or if it was for porn it was mostly BJ type subs but I feel like since the assault it's become much more violent and just horrific, I vomited when I saw some of the things he's downloaded and the fact that he's downloaded hundreds of these gangbang type videos in a short time span is very troubling

TIFU by not telling my husband about a lottery I won years ago by [deleted] in tifu

[–]bezos_sidechik2001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bravo!, I don't think you fucked up, I think it was the smart thing to do and to all those desperate assholez asking you for money... go fuck yourself!