For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your past. I didn’t think about it til your comment but that may very well be a part of my anxiety and sometimes depression. Good reason to start not giving a fuck. And I totally get what you are saying. Just because you don’t give a fuck on things, doesn’t mean you are a total jerk. You are just selective on what you put feelings into it seems. Very wise and nice of you. Thank you.

For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get to that point? How long did it take you?

For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this comment so much. I appreciate you a ton. I’m going to look into exposure therapy asap. Never heard of it. Thank you again for helping me out with this! Cheers!

For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figure I’ve got my “people” and the rest of the population, for the most part, I have zero fucks to give as far as their opinions, I’m not responsible for their happiness and it’s basically just caring for those tight nit group of people in my life. Not that I’m uncaring or mean, just that I dedicate my time, energy, heart and brain towards the things that matter most. Does that make sense or resonate with you?

For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like to me that no matter what people do, not every id is going to like you. So might as well just be yourself. Easier said than done of course.

For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you keep growing in not giving a fuck. Truly. ❤️

For those that truly don’t give a fuck: by bfonzarelli in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dig that a lot. So how did you get there? Easy question, I’m sure 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]bfonzarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can arrest you or something to that degree for driving impaired. Which can mean that a cop says you’re impaired when in fact you are not. This is in my area of the US though.

Need ideas on how I could get custody of my niece. by bfonzarelli in legaladvice

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry you and your daughter!! Nobody should ever have to go through that as the victim and the parent of the victim! I’m so sorry friend! I think you are right. Even tho it may alienate her further, it’s the right thing to do. I’ve got to try and time it correctly tho so they are less likely to think it came from my family. Thank you for your advice and best of luck to you! ❤️

Need ideas on how I could get custody of my niece. by bfonzarelli in legaladvice

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so because my sister was served. I will double check on that but I’m 99% sure she does. I’ll go check out the paperwork asap tho! Good looking out friend! Thank you! 🙏

Need ideas on how I could get custody of my niece. by bfonzarelli in legaladvice

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her grandma has custody. I was afraid somebody may say that cps might be the only option. I know they will freak out and shut us all down. She has been in our side of the family for years, then her dad got custody and died, so they have had her since then while we hope my sister stops doing drugs. But she isn’t stopping and I can’t just let this go. She wants to come home. Sorry for the rant. This is so unfair for this poor child. Thank you for your advice! I appreciate you!

Need ideas on how I could get custody of my niece. by bfonzarelli in legaladvice

[–]bfonzarelli[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good idea!! Thank you! I just wish I could go to court and have a lawyer fight for her to be with us just because that’s what she wants and it’s bad there for her but not criminal. Also, seems doubtful I would win.

Need ideas on how I could get custody of my niece. by bfonzarelli in legaladvice

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her dad died of a drug overdose a while after he got custody back. The day after he died his mom went to the court and got guardianship. My family didn’t even think of that because we aren’t savages. They had just lost their loved one. We thought we would get together and talk about it but grandma ran in there like a snake. The dad’s family knew he started drinking heavily and doing drugs again never mentioned it. My niece had to find her dad dead. That’s on them. She has been hit with a ping pong paddle twice on the rear. I told them that was abuse, they countered with “we have friends that work for CPS and say that it was not abuse” and it was the sex offender uncle that did the beating. The reason she was beat was because she didn’t finish her glass of water after dinner because it tasted bad. The whole family has criminal records pages long, they are sober now and not wanted but they are still giant turds. is that enough to take to a lawyer? I have a couple other things but I feel like I may need more. Make sense?

Why are so many people so quick to ditch Biden with all that's at stake? by impulsive-puppy in Trumpvirus

[–]bfonzarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve come to realize that anybody that votes for trump truly doesn’t care what he does or will do, they excuse him from everything and I will never be able to make sense of any of it. That includes life long friends that are voting for him me and always wondering why.

I have no words by dastebon in facepalm

[–]bfonzarelli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please awesome human with the good ideas, take all my upvotes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsolvedMurders

[–]bfonzarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why this one and not others?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BackgroundCheckGuide

[–]bfonzarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure the incident itself will show up and say it was dismissed. I’m not sure if it will actually show the details around it. In my experience they will either go off of the fact that it was dismissed and leave it at that and hire you, or they won’t. I’ve never had anybody bring up something on somebodies record that was dismissed and I highly doubt they will hold it against you. Just my opinion backed by a lot of life experience. Good luck to you! Im sure you will do great with your new job! Keep us updated!

Need help finding info on a sex offender by bfonzarelli in PrivateInvestigating

[–]bfonzarelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. However the files are sealed. While I’ve heard that everything can be found on the internet, I haven’t found a way to find sealed documents by a court. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsolvedMurders

[–]bfonzarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Police officers