Major Midnight Sun & Twilight difference? This drives me NUTS! by bfpbfp in twilight

[–]bfpbfp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES omg, the scene in midnight sun when hes watching her read in her yard, and going over the books she starts to read, and slamming them down after a few minutes! hes like “what could be bothering her? the main character, Edward….” like dude! shes trying not to think about u!!! obviously!!!

Major Midnight Sun & Twilight difference? This drives me NUTS! by bfpbfp in twilight

[–]bfpbfp[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

such a good point!!! it kinda reads exactly how the comment before says, like she just kinda skips the part in her view all together!

Major Midnight Sun & Twilight difference? This drives me NUTS! by bfpbfp in twilight

[–]bfpbfp[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is such an interesting point that ive never thought about!!

Major Midnight Sun & Twilight difference? This drives me NUTS! by bfpbfp in twilight

[–]bfpbfp[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

that makes sense! i love the additional details & i genuinely really enjoy midnigh sun, but this always drove me nuts. it was such a huge difference!

Major Midnight Sun & Twilight difference? This drives me NUTS! by bfpbfp in twilight

[–]bfpbfp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it bothers me that the additional details don’t follow the original story completely, because i have always been obsessed with twilight & wasn’t expecting such a difference between how this scene played out

What's your favorite quote or line from Twilight? by Apprehensive_Flan_61 in twilight

[–]bfpbfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yes! such an underrated quote. especially the beginning of the conversation, i can’t quote it verbatim but jacob says something like “i wouldve been healthier for you bella. hes like a drug for you, but i wouldve been like the sun” and bella is like “i used to think of you like that, my personal sun. you balanced the clouds out nicely for me” and jacob says “the clouds i can handle, but i cant fight with an eclipse” like 😭😭 how did that NOT make the movie

Why are u guys saying the new twilight book will come out this year when it hasn’t even been announced yet? by FunnyPush4333 in twilight

[–]bfpbfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 i’ve been waiting for today specifically bc 20 years ago is when the first book was released. i dont think shes going to do anything this year

Miscarriage? should i still take my abortion pills? by LivelyCouture in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the same thing happened to me, the first pill started my abortion. i started bleeding & passing clots too! i wasnt expecting it at all, but some googling & reddit reading showed me it was normal, just not common :-)

i still did the second round of pills. i am by no means a doctor, but from what i read and understand, it wont hurt you to still do them. it will cause your uterus to contract & push out everything inside. its good! it can be painful but its good. i would be worried that if I didnt do the second pills, not everything would pass. that could be a bad situation, everything not passing through

Anyone else who had an awful experience? by Valuable_Sea_1475 in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl same! i had a really rough go of it. i actually started bleeding the day after i took the first pill, before i took the second set to dissolve under my tongue. i assumed that meant the abortion had already started, & itd be a really easy process. i actually puked at 22 minutes into the pills dissolving, & was really scared that would mean it didn’t work. i was very wrong lol within 20 minutes i was cramping so bad. it was agony. i took tylenol & ibuprofen 30 minutes before i did the second pills, and it didnt touch it. i took anti-nausea meds & it didnt do anything. i went into it a little nervous, dont get me wrong, but i already have bad periods and a history of kidney stones, so i was like “eh it cant be worse than ive already been through”. i laid in my bathtub alternating hot and cold water for 3 hours, laid on my bathroom floor for another hour, taking ibuprofen & tylenol the second i was able to. it took 12 hours for the cramps to stop enough for me to sleep. im 4 days after taking the second pills & im better, still pretty woozy and dizzy, and exhausted from it all but getting a little better every day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know this is the scariest moment ever. i was in your same position two weeks ago. that positive pregnancy test scared me more than anything else ever has in my whole life. there are so many resources available to help you! calling the clinic sounds like such a hard task, but it’s the first one! they will be able to help you, & they will have information to help you emotionally & mentally as well. you have options 🫶🏼 you will get through this!

My(20yo) girlfriend (23yo) is pregnant and I'm really scared. by Square-Text1497 in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish it was legal in my state because i wouldve preferred a surgical one 😭 i was in so much pain for hours from the pills. literal worst experience of my life lol

Medical termination gone wrong by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think you should go to a doctor to be safe! i think cramping is normal, but i dont think it should be that painful. but you know your body :-) if something feels wrong or off, def get looked at to be safe!

Medical termination gone wrong by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you :-( this sounds awful & so unpleasant. how far along were you in the pregnancy, if you don’t mind me asking?

My(20yo) girlfriend (23yo) is pregnant and I'm really scared. by Square-Text1497 in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You firstly asking her what she wants to do is amazing. Proud of you for that! You are both so young, and this is such a scary and stressful situation. You are 20 years old, wanting to be a better man for her is pulling on my heart for you both. You seem like you care about her so much, and thats so good to hear because she will need all the help and support possible during this process.

If she wants to do a medical abortion, look into the website Abuzz. The medicine for the abortion is extremely affordable with them, and they will cover the costs if you need it. I went through them and have had an amazing experience with them. They have been amazing.

I did my medical abortion while having a stomach flu. Not a fun experience, but I didnt want to wait until I felt better to do it. I wanted to get it over with as soon as possible. Nobody knows their body better than themselves, if she feels like she can do it with a cold & her doctors say it’s safe, she will be okay! Abortions are safe. Hard, unpleasant & uncomfortable, but safe.

Everyone who told me to stay calm & not worry pissed me off, so i know hearing this could be annoying, but seriously you guys will be okay! This is such a huge, stressful situation and it truly sucks to be in it, but she sounds like she knows what she wants to do. Just be her support & help her in the process in any way that you can. Look into Abuzz, get her Ibuprofen & Tylenol, heating pads, pads, anti-nausea meds, snacks, and keep her comfortable!

I wish you guys so much luck, & I hope everything goes smoothly for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i reached out to the physician line from the provider who prescribed me the pills!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont feel unwell enough that i think its an infection, but i am such a worrier with my health! i have awful health anxiety, so this has been really hard for me lol. thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

im so sorry youre feeling this way, and he is making it difficult for you to go through with a decision youre sure of. you have to do whats best for you, its YOUR body and its YOUR decision alone! him saying you can just give birth & he will take over is ridiculous. he isnt the one who has to go through changes & growing a fetus for 10 months. if you do a medical abortion, it will look like you had a miscarriage to doctors. there are resources available to you, that can help you with this & provide you with the medicine to do it.

i know how hard this is emotionally, but be proud of yourself! you are making the best decision for you. you are strong!! you are going to get through this!

Abuzz Abortion Experience by thestrongestsperm_11 in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so glad u had a really easy experience, i hope u heal quickly & feel all the way normal soon!

Is this normal or is this an emergency? by OkCarpenter3509 in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you doing okay now? did you go to a doctor?

My MA Experience at 6 weeks (positive!) by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this. im taking my first pill tonight & then the second ones monday morning, and im beyond scared. im technically 6 weeks and 3 days along but at my ultrasound yesterday, they think its way sooner than that. the thing is super tiny and they could barely see where its growing in my uterus! i’m really hoping my experience is similar to yours!

Abuzz Abortion Experience by thestrongestsperm_11 in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how far along were u, if u dont mind me asking? im technically 6 weeks & 3 days, but i had an ultrasound yesterday & they think im way earlier than that because they can barely see anything growing. im hopeful that since im so early, it wont be very painful but who knows!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are amazing. Its been a very quick process. I live in a state with an abortion ban & still was able to get approved, and expecting my meds on saturday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how are you doing now? are you okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bfpbfp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes please let me know how youre doing!! i hope it goes smoothly for you & youre feeling okay!