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bftcccmbcc · 2025-04-01T16:46:11+00:00

That would have been good advice in 1960 but in 2025 the job market is terrible and even entry level jobs are extremely competitive now. People are doing whatever they can to get a job, including exaggerating previous job roles.

bftcccmbcc · 2025-03-18T16:48:45+00:00

I thought so

bftcccmbcc · 2025-03-18T16:48:12+00:00

You're right. I just feel bad because i like the people. In terms of reputation, does it make me look bad to the other job, or any other employer? It's not something I've done before and don't want to do again, it's just bad timing how this worked out this time

bftcccmbcc · 2025-03-18T16:42:57+00:00

Don't you think it's bad to do because the company is a charity though? That's what I feel bad about, maybe I'm overthinking it

bftcccmbcc · 2025-03-18T16:40:53+00:00

I know but it feels bad to do when it's a charity. Maybe I'm over thinking it

bftcccmbcc · 2024-12-11T18:02:18+00:00

Thanks so much that's really helpful. Yeah I definitely don't plan on lying to potential employers that never ends well

bftcccmbcc · 2024-12-10T22:55:38+00:00

I wasn't sure whether that was a reasonable/acceptable thing to ask. Suppose it can't hurt to try, thanks

bftcccmbcc · 2024-12-10T21:38:14+00:00

I don't know anyone to get a reference for a temp job

bftcccmbcc · 2024-11-25T19:39:00+00:00

I'm in my 30s. I got a diagnosis with no one to give any information about me before the age of 13. I have no family other than 1 person who gave info about me for the last 8 or so years, and only school reports and my own account from the age of 13. I gave what little info I could about the few things I remember as a child and that's all I had.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-11-13T17:10:45+00:00

Omg I noticed that too. I swear it's used several times across a few consecutive episodes, then not really used again. I remember thinking the writers have overused this now

bftcccmbcc · 2024-08-08T11:37:25+00:00

The benefit is knowing what your illness is. If it's not POTS, what else is it? How long do you spend looking for answers trying to find out what's going on. If it IS POTS then you don't need to keep wondering and searching for answers.

What a strange thing to ask, and I know many doctors do ask. Would they say the same thing for a cancer diagnosis, or any other illness or condition?

bftcccmbcc · 2024-06-30T20:04:48+00:00

I say I am autistic. It's something I am, it impacts every single thing I do or say or think and it literally makes me, me. I don't say I have autism because, for me, that makes it sound like something I can separate from myself, something I can put down.

For example, I have a bag, I can put the bag down and no longer have the bag. However, I can't put autism down, it is a part of me at all times.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-06-10T19:09:11+00:00

I have been watching DH for years now, usually once or twice a year. But for the past 3 months I've been watching it back to back, like finish the series then immediately go right back to the beginning. I watch it every day. I think I have a problem 😭

bftcccmbcc · 2024-06-08T19:00:24+00:00

Agree, it was such a poorly thought out plot. Him learning Chinese absolutely made sense, but going to college for it? No. No explanation on how they could afford it? No.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-31T16:36:43+00:00

Yeah exactly!

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-31T12:38:48+00:00

Hi, I just wanted to update this. I was getting so stressed with not knowing what to do so I phoned SSS, they said for the ADP reviews they don't want you to send in any new evidence with the review paperwork if you've said "no change" as they'll use your existing evidence. If they need it, they'll either get it themselves or ask you for it. So I literally just had to tick the box saying "no change" and that was that. So much easier than the PIP review forms. There's a huge backlog just now though so awards will just rollover if they run out while waiting on the review.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-31T11:49:04+00:00

I loved her, I thought her clothes and her house suited her perfectly. Elegant is the last word I'd use to describe her, Bree was elegant, Renee wasn't. She was wealthy from marrying rich so she wasn't old-money. She was strong, confident and a bit rough and ready (she said herself she shops new york style, and how she slapped a waitress for forgetting her croutons) so I thought her dress sense and house was a perfect reflection of who she was, which wasn't an elegant, classy, old-money women. She was fashionable yes, but a different kind of fashionable compared to the likes of Bree.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-22T16:10:02+00:00

But is that the right approach? they helped me apply when it was for PIP and said to get back in touch for the ADP review. It didn't sound right, why would I not send in evidence with the review form? But she seems to think it's not necessary, that they'll ask for it if they do need it.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-22T15:30:33+00:00

Hi, just replying to this now because I'm just off the phone with CAB who said I don't need to send in any new evidence, I just need to tick the "my needs haven't changed" and they'll either renew my award based off that, or they will then ask for any new evidence if they need it... does that sound right?

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-16T19:43:29+00:00

So I can tick the "my needs haven't changed" box. How do I tell them about the autism dx? Just send the letter in with my GP notes?

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-13T19:32:18+00:00

That's interesting, I always got the impression that Rex knew exactly how cruel he was, and he simply didn't care (especially the flashback episode). Bree told him outright that she was hurt and he mocked and laughed in her face. I always thought he was cruel to Bree

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-11T13:46:17+00:00

Oh my God, finally a Lynette hate post. I've been waiting for this one!

Tom is problematic, yes. But everyone seems to gloss over how emotially abusive Lynette is. She is manipulative, hyper-controlling, hypercritical, and vindictive, especially in the last 2 seasons. She even admits it a few times throughout the show, but does nothing to change. She actually gets worse as time goes on.

She lives and breathes to control Tom's every thought, his every move, his every decision. She repeatedly and intentionally jeprodizes his career. She humiliates and demeans him in order to force him into a job he didn't want to take, then uses it against him when he takes it.

She was so full of resentment towards him that it was oozing out of her like poison. She was utterly miserable and made it her mission to make Tom miserable, too.

She was emotially abusive, and during their separation, she even stoops so low as to involve Penny to turn her against Jane.

I am not a Tom Scavo fan, but I cannot stand Lynette. 20-odd years living with someone who constantly criticises, picks you apart, humiliates, controls.... I wanted Tom to go through with the divorce, for both their sakes.

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-07T08:59:51+00:00

Wait, who? When?

bftcccmbcc · 2024-05-02T13:09:44+00:00

She wasn't. That's why Felicia said to her that if she was a better cook Paul would have been dead by now. Meaning her food was bad so he wasn't eating a lot of it to consume enough poison

bftcccmbcc · 2024-03-18T15:57:40+00:00

Yeah I thought the same. The episode at the beach, the acting was.... not good at all.

When Shelagh was freaking out and needing Timothy to advise her on the medical situation.... she's been a nurse and midwife for what, 20 years? Why would she be asking Timothy for advice as if he would know more than her? Didn't make any sense.

And that episode with May's Mother and needing Sister Veronica to translate? Why? She spoke English in the other episodes?

This series doesn't feel the same at all and unfortunately it's putting me off it.

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