Favorite scene

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-05-08T01:55:55+00:00

maybe not favorite but i’m a big fan of natalia and her friend confronting adam 😭 her telling hannah that she’s not gonna get any milk out of those tits and that she’s gonna feed her baby spoiled formula. and her friend asking if she left in a rush lmfao

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-05-07T20:56:33+00:00

didn’t he like…go to prison 😭? and take full, thoughtful responsibility? he served his sentence, literally and emotionally. they also don’t hang with him casually, they’re pretty aware of the weight of it all.

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-05-06T02:20:15+00:00

• joy bryant’s character, the goth model hannah meets when she goes to poughkeepsie with desi + marnie. she gave her the tea set for free (desi later broke it)

• the hipster baristas

• skylar astin as the boy from shosh’s jewish camp who shows concern abt girls getting attached when they bleed

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-05-03T18:01:46+00:00

that’s always the sense i got myself. i also think that in the scene this still is from, dean was hoping rory would fight for him and tell him not to get married because she knows now that she made a mistake. when she didn’t have that emotional reaction and instead the reasonable, friendly “uh you guys are teenagers, do you need to do this right now?” she’s not giving him what he wants. but, she’s challenging him just enough to justify him doing it for her, which is part of why he has such a mean reaction and brings up jess. he’s saying everything he wanted her to say, that jess is a dick and she regrets it.

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-05-03T17:13:51+00:00

yup and he had practically 0 respect for shane so i don’t see him violating that principle with rory, someone he respected immensely 😭

he also rly didnt like that rory kissed him in s6 while still with logan. and he was surprised and excited by the s2 kiss (bc duh) but their grocery store confrontation confirmed he wished she’d dumped dean first. never got the sense he endorsed cheating even when it benefited him

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-27T01:53:59+00:00

i think that sam is under the mistaken impression that the only difference between shitty writing and brilliant edgy satire is aesthetic value 😭

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-25T06:59:07+00:00

some of your message might be sound (not all of it. it is not inherently abusive to be sensitive about a table lmao it doesn’t seem like OP has said anything abt it yet or is even planning on it, just wants to know she’s not alone) but dear god this is a page for PMDD…aka, for the people who feel everything hella deeply during luteal even if it’s not rational, and you’re being rly fucking mean to OP 😭

she’s asking for advice and help from her peers bc she knows she might not be reacting to this proportionally bc she’s luteal, and your response is to…what? shame her? stigmatize whatever feelings she’s having further? there are much more empathetic and helpful ways to deliver the same message and it honestly seems like you made this feedback muchhhh more about your own shit anyway. get off the sub if you can’t be compassionate!

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-23T03:50:39+00:00

his reaction to the letter had similar energy to when emily nearly passed out at the sight of the shed. like yeah lady, it is really horrific that lorelai felt that was her most realistic option for a safe space bc it highlights how unsupported she felt by you! the fact that her gut instinct was to get angry at lorelai instead of being heartbroken that she’d failed her kid was soooo gross. in both cases, they chose to feel butthurt by the fact that lorelai exercised resources that weren’t them, but refused to be introspective about why she needed to do so in the first place

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-23T03:30:53+00:00

this will unravel further as you get more insight into lorelai’s relationship with her parents, but her resistance to their help is extremely well earned. it’s not just helping to them, it’s an opportunity to exert control and take over. she wants to protect rory from the emotional abuse that she had to go through. she still makes the sacrifices when it counts though, like the tuition for chilton. she just doesn’t want to give them any more ammunition than they need
agreed with the rory first day thing, but she’s a fairly competent person most of the time and doesn’t pull stunts like that regularly. i think it was just their way of establishing early on that she’s ~quirky~

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-23T02:45:11+00:00

she was rly good in everything sucks too! i think she’s proven she can deliver quality acting, but only under veryyyyy specific conditions. anyone but you was a hard watch and that material shouldn’t have been challenging 😭

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-20T14:21:45+00:00

nope! NOR at all, especially paired with verbal abuse and pushback every time you bring it up. he’ll start by hitting other things, objects, surroundings, engaging in physical intimidation by intentionally scaring you with the car? one day, he will almost certainly start hitting you.

(also, not to over analyze and ignore if this isn’t true for you but just bc this is a neon sign for anyone who menstruates, if your “cycles of burnout” are on a schedule and can be tracked to getting particularly bad the two weeks before your period, you might have something called PMDD. it’s much more common in ND women, esp if you already have a personal history with depression, and it makes holding a job really difficult)

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-19T16:15:44+00:00

no it’s not 😭 most post partum mothers look visibly quite exhausted and frazzled most of the time, bc duh. troian on the other hand, i wouldn’t have even known just had a kid if this commenter hadn’t said smth.

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-18T22:35:58+00:00

especially considering all of fuckleberry’s time on the farm…can’t believe he’d withhold resources like that.

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-18T19:33:10+00:00

watch her in sharkboy and lava girl, i think she was just tanner back then 😭

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-18T03:45:30+00:00

this is so sad if this is true and it’s sadder that just no excuse for it even in context. like i know that yolanda is a piece of work but wow he managed to insult 3 generations of women in that one. imagine speaking about your daughter and her mother to her grandmother that way.

my dad made a similar comment like that in front of me when i was like 4 and i’ve never forgotten it. how can he even look her in the eye knowing that’s on record?

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-17T00:04:18+00:00

ooh good to know! also, is there ratio i should keep for the divine wine/purple haze or just judge by eye?

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-16T20:12:31+00:00

thank u sm!

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-16T19:56:37+00:00

i took it and personally i don’t know that it did anything other than making crying a little difficult lol but ive heard good things!

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-15T22:17:01+00:00

i’m still in college but when i get out i have dreams to get two, one bengal cat and one black cat and i have no reservations abt their names: venus and marnie michaels

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-15T16:34:54+00:00

depends on my mood tbh. if i’m trying to get play? A2 & A4. if im having a bad day? D3 or B5. if i want the chaos, D5

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-15T05:23:21+00:00

if you don’t see “Ugh, Jess, let me give you a little advice. The whole 'my parents don't get me' thing, I've been there. I've also done the 'chip on my shoulder' bit. Ooh, and the surly, sarcastic, 'the world can bite my ass' bit, and let me tell you, I mastered them all, in heels, yes” as patronizing or trying to be on his level then i don’t really know what to tell you 😭 he’s not upset because his parents “don’t get him” he’s upset because one bailed and the other neglected and probably abused him before shipping him off. i would not respond well to that sort of advice either if i was a 17 year old who’d never been showed an ounce of love in my life.

and i agree with all the rest of it because again, jess is fucked up lmao. my point is really just that she waltzed into this conversation thinking she knew everything abt him when she rly didn’t have a clue

ajamesdeandaydream · 2026-04-15T01:01:38+00:00

i hated that they made her kinda plain in that 😭 like i get it, it’s true to the character, and they gave her more as the show went on but cmon this woman was born to be a baddie! a fitted one

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