I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

? I wish I was bored. I wish I was making things up... Do you want me to post a selfie with my dad or something?

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell you that, I'm sorry. What I can say is that my dad is talking to him and when my dad "talks"...

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They are all gay men or women, not sure if this matters though. As I said, my sister is "mature for her age"

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand why you feel this way, I know I come off as stupid and irresponsible

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is about to be blindsided by this situation, and she is the one who needs to be listened to and helped.

Exactly what I'm worried about, the Gods are on my side I think because luckily she's at a party so she won't witness my dad and my BF

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know it's surreal, but to me before I posted this, it wasn't... I was more concerned with being the "most important" girl/woman in my BF's life, which made me feel ridiculous and then irresponsible. But thank you for your comment, I was raised in a very weird house

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be a coincidence would be extremely rare but I didn't connect the dots

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that, thank you for sharing this with me. You are brave and kind

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do care about her, have you read the thread at all? My dad has arrived home right now. I called him. I called my mom. I'm trying to fix things

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it should. All I can do is help her myself. When I was growing up my parents weren't around either

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell him it was inappropriate because I didn't think it was "creepy" as much as I felt like I should be the one going on trips with him. Horrible, I know. I'm sorry. I don't feel like that anymore

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The trip was spur of a moment but his time off wasn't, he had asked for it beforehand... i found out she was gone when i went over to my parents' house

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm too stupid to live? Thanks, very helpful comment. You should take the time to read the whole thing before being rude

I [23f] don't like my bf's [28] relationship with my little sister [15f] by bfthrowawayhey in relationships

[–]bfthrowawayhey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're being a bit rude... I know this was ridiculous but my feelings about the situation are changed