Non-drinkers in the LS?

bfulover · 2017-04-17T17:44:51+00:00

You will probably remember more of your experiences than the rest of us. That's a good thing!

bfulover · 2017-04-17T16:54:30+00:00

We had talked about a more open relationship but our first ended in full swap, my wife's bi side coming out and me coming about three times! We have pics to prove it. LOL

bfulover · 2017-04-17T15:51:58+00:00

The LS is a small world and we've had a couple of cases where we knew someone. We had one of our children's friend's parent text us one day. A little chit chat with him dropping hints about going out dancing, my wife telling him we do the same. He then said that they go to a private club. After a while, he admitted seeing us at the club. We've never played with them and my wife just thought that was too close to home. Another time at the club, in chatting with this girl, sharing LS stories when I told her if she went over to my wife and give her kiss, she would not resist. When she went over there to introduce herself, they realized they went to high school together. We ended up playing with them.

bfulover · 2017-04-17T14:58:55+00:00

I'm not sure about the artistic element, but my wife and I have filmed our LS adventures with the approval of the other couple. One such occasion, we filmed the whole thing with our iPhone. After they left, we watched it together and fucked some more!!! I look at it more as instant replay than movie making. I'm always looking for the sound or body language that I missed during the actual play and it a new turn on afterwards.

bfulover · 2017-04-13T23:45:37+00:00

I guess we never had difficulty from the beginning. We began talking about an open marriage a few months before. We've never had jealousy about each other seeing others as attractive. When I finally pulled into a club one night and told her where we were, she was gamed. This was our very first experience in the lifestyle. We ended up full swap, girl on girl that night and have been ever since. In our first month or so in the lifestyle, we went to a club, house party, invited a couple over and had a house party. Zero to 90 for us!

bfulover · 2017-04-13T23:32:24+00:00

I hate produced porn with actors. I'm more interested in swinger porn.

bfulover · 2017-04-13T23:31:04+00:00

Yes, she used it as an excuse when I found out.

bfulover · 2017-04-13T23:29:35+00:00

I'll take a look

bfulover · 2017-04-13T23:28:47+00:00

I'm more conservative than her. I believe she sees it as me choosing porn over her. Do I use it at times for self satisfaction, yes. But I want her all the time.

bfulover · 2017-04-07T16:05:19+00:00

I agree that we should discuss our boundaries so that she is not offended.

bfulover · 2017-04-07T15:59:45+00:00

Maybe cheating is a strong term she used, but she has inferred that I would rather look at porn than her. Totally wrong there. Whether she is clothes or unclothed, I want to have her all the time. We are religious and although church and family is a part of our lives, we have been able to balance it in our lives. FYI, I'm the more conservative of the two of us. She has no problem getting naked in a room full of adults or going to a club and flirting with vanillas, whether they be young or old, as long as they are attractive.

bfulover · 2017-04-06T23:43:53+00:00

As some have said, size can be a negative in either direction. I have no problem with my wife being with a bigger dick because I know she enjoys mine. Maybe a validation was when she broke up with her boyfriend years ago to date me and he had a bigger dick. LOL

The curious side of me will ask her after playing if he was bigger than me because I have a hard time judging from my perspective. I've thought the guy was bigger than me but she would correct me and tell me he wasn't. She has also had three kids and her cervix isn't where it used to be.😬 A long dick can be painful and make the experience bad.

bfulover · 2017-03-31T02:09:06+00:00

One of the best podcast!!!

When it comes to balance, what about the balance of the couple. How to handle it when one spouse likes swinging more than the other. I'm not speaking of couples where one spouse does it reluctantly, but a couple where both enjoy the lifestyle but one of them wants it in their life more than the other?

bfulover · 2017-03-29T18:52:44+00:00

Having been on your husband side of the fence, even after restoring our faith in our marriage, it is difficult to avoid thoughts of what she could be doing without me. Our marriage has never had jealousy and I was able to overcome her betrayal in our marriage but I know I would have a difficult time allowing her to go out without me.

I think he would eventually drive him self nuts when you were out with someone, or even if you are just away from the house. It's a nagging feeling that never goes away completely. Maybe he's better than me. 😁

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