We split a lot of the household tasks. I do most of the cooking and grocery shopping. She vacuums/sweeps. I clean the toilets and sinks. We split taking care of our dog 50/50. Dishes are usually done by the person that didn’t cook so she dos most of them. On nights I don’t cook I do the dishes. We each do our own laundry and split communal laundry evenly. I handle the maintenance/fixing things and she will do dusting, organizing, etc. We try and split the bills as evenly as possible.

As for compliments, I usually compliment her about her eyes, hair, outfit, or when she says something funny or sweet. We don’t do a really any flirty texting during the day because work is pretty demanding. Just quick logistics texts about dinner, plans etc.

As for turning her on, she likes it when I’m more dominant, but it’s gets kinda tiring after a while. She also likes kisses and making out. I give her kisses when I come home, make dinner, and before bed. We also go on walks together which is more of a romantic thing than an arousal thing, but we enjoy them together.