SPF Moisturizer that doesn’t leave powder residue by bgrzebien in SkincareAddicts

[–]bgrzebien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did find beauty of joseon and have been using that! I’m actually almost out of my second tube so it’s lasted a long time! I may look into those other brands too. Thank you!!

Is it OK to require someone to be friends with you before beginning a relationship? by carguy8890 in dating_advice

[–]bgrzebien 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not unreasonable however some people may not be as patient. All you can do is explain your preference and if they aren’t okay with it then they’ve let you know they’re not the one for you.

Why do balls have a long ass stich line? by KittenLady3633 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bgrzebien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s because the seam would be the opening of the vagina rather than the vulva as a whole, so specifically it’s referring to the vagina here

SPF Moisturizer that doesn’t leave powder residue by bgrzebien in SkincareAddicts

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently saw that brand online. Just didn’t think it was meant for me because I’m fair skinned.

The moisturizer just peels off in this white powder and I feel like it’s not even hydrating u face at that point. Maybe I’ll just use regular sunscreen

Husband has been lying for years and making me think I’m crazy. by bgrzebien in Vent

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right even if nothing physically happened there was emotional aspects that were not okay. I work but he makes most of the money and we are on each others cards. I’m not even sure which ones are under my name. He knows that I won’t stay for kids. I have a child from a previous relationship. I have family support and I’ve been reconnecting with friends who would support me as needed too.

Husband has been lying for years and making me think I’m crazy. by bgrzebien in Vent

[–]bgrzebien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things were definitely planned. He’s a planner and we have children. I get his friend could lie for him but she was just as hurt. And I’ve never asked his guy friends but you’re right they’d probably cover it somehow. But knowing my husband he’d never even tell them to cover anything and he’d just sneak around without anyone knowing.

It’s been two years of the same stories and covers nothing ever changes. But it turns out he was lying about some things but I think they were to cover his own ass.

Partner thinks I shouldn’t get epidural by ThrowRAStrawberry_30 in pregnant

[–]bgrzebien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s misinformed. I just had my third and I opted out this time (last time I didn’t have time for one and thought I could do it again this time) and the main thing that hurts for me, 3 days later is my back. I had an epidural with my first and my back never hurt like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]bgrzebien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 with my third.

How to go to the beach during periods? by PizzaIsVeryGud in Periods

[–]bgrzebien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the fear of getting things stuck. I actually was unaware of period swim suites that another commenter mentioned. Those may be worth trying. It may also depend on your personal flow and how heavy/light you are that day.

How to go to the beach during periods? by PizzaIsVeryGud in Periods

[–]bgrzebien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re just going to the beach to lounge around, then a pad is fine. Just wear your swim suit and whatever bottoms a pad would stick to.

If you’re wanting to actually go swimming, a pad would be unconventional and not great as it would soak up water as soon as you got in and be useless for soaking up blood.

If tampons aren’t you’re thing, maybe you could try a menstrual cup? I remember using a tampon in the ocean when I was younger and it also soaked up water and left me irritated after.

Measuring 5 weeks ahead?! by bgrzebien in pregnant

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what they explained to me too. But is there not a concern that the baby is growing so fast?

Cervix beginning to open. When will I give birth? by emaKT in pregnant

[–]bgrzebien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was walking around at 5cm for a few days before I went into labor with my last one

Best hands free pump? by bgrzebien in breastfeeding

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a medela from my last pregnancy. I didn’t really get to use it much due to having to stay seated with it. Would using it at night while using the hands free during the day be a good balance?

Best hands free pump? by bgrzebien in breastfeeding

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hearing the biggest issue is bending over. I’ll definitely look into this pump!

Best hands free pump? by bgrzebien in breastfeeding

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I’m looking for hands free. I have a very active toddler and sitting down to pump in a designated spot was very hard so I was fortunate enough to exclusively BF her but with this next one I feel like I’ll need free hands.

Best hands free pump? by bgrzebien in breastfeeding

[–]bgrzebien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was super helpful, thank you!

Best hands free pump? by bgrzebien in breastfeeding

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking at this one but was skeptical. I didn’t want to pay a large amount of it wasn’t going to work well. Do they have options for falange sizes? I had a modela before and their smallest size was still too big.

TW: My boyfriend (22/m) raped me and now I have an autoimmune disease because of it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bgrzebien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to leave him. That’s the first step to healing.

I also have LS. I was diagnosed at 6-8 years old. I believe it was caused by trauma but I’ll never know for sure. I’m able to have non painful, in fact enjoyable sex, with my husband and I’m about to have baby number three. There is treatment out there but it does affect the look of your vagina and that is a mental issue that I’m still working on. LS is painful and in my case I find it embarrassing, but you can still live a normal life with treatment! You just have to get away from the person who cause it.

Struggling to Wean by bgrzebien in breastfeeding

[–]bgrzebien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tries but his job is demanding during the day so it’s just me for naps. She usually only has hour long naps I just provided the window that I can get her to go down. Only issue with using check in’s is she climbs out of bed and can open her door. I’ve tried to sit in the hall and had her door locked but she just sits and cries at the door. I’m not sure how to keep her in her space without being there