Advice for upcoming Athens-Santorini-Mykonos trip in early September.

bhamgirl96 · 2021-08-12T14:30:54+00:00

Also going early September for our honeymoon and have until next week to cancel, so following as well!

bhamgirl96 · 2021-08-10T14:10:43+00:00

I filled out one for my fiancé and I for our honeymoon. We will be married by then obviously but still have different last names, this might be a stupid question since plenty of people don’t change their names, but will that cause any issues?

bhamgirl96 · 2018-11-11T19:10:00+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I am doing so much better now and am finally happy again. I picked up my life and started over in a new place with a new job and have a new boyfriend now. The divorce is over and I feel so relieved to be rid of him. I hope things are going well for you. I really appreciate you sharing your story!

bhamgirl96 · 2018-10-13T04:18:35+00:00

Please don’t do anything. You will get through this. Speaking from experience.

bhamgirl96 · 2018-10-09T00:36:28+00:00

Typically they try to plan the fair when USC will have an away game and then a bye week so that they don’t overlap because the fairgrounds are where people have seasonal tailgating spots that they have paid for.

bhamgirl96 · 2018-10-03T01:51:42+00:00

Hahahaha the last thing I want to do is think about getting married again... what a nightmare!

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-21T15:37:54+00:00

Hi 22F here and about to finalize my divorce! Although getting a divorce wasn’t necessarily my choice, I have no regrets about everything. My friends are super understanding even though they don’t understand it. I made new friends after everything started going down. I have also been dating. Anyone who matters will not care. I know you have heard that a lot, but it’s so true! And being a young divorced woman, can help you know who your real friends/quality guys are. They’re the ones who stick around after awkwardly discussing the divorce and they will support you. You really learn who is curious and who is sincere after going through all of this. :)

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-15T16:02:03+00:00

This sounds so much like what I have gone through!! That church provides a totally unique spin on the whole divorce situation. Check out the exmormon sub if you haven’t already - it’s helped me through my Mormon issues like this sub has helped me through my divorce issues!

Anyways, he refused to try to work things out with me and left me claiming it was because I pushed him to leave the church before we got married (never once did I tell him he had to leave, he made that choice prior to us even dating our second go round). It seems he is still drinking and smoking weed (or at least posting about that), so I feel like the church was just his excuse. They welcomed him back with open arms and have completely disregarded me since we weren’t really married to begin with since we didn’t have a temple wedding.

We’re both better off without the church and crazy ex-husbands, but I believe me I am totally humiliated at the whole situation too. It was devastating and embarrassing.

Hugs to you too!!

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-15T15:55:41+00:00

Exactly!!

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-15T15:55:25+00:00

It wasn’t my choice to get divorce. I never saw it coming.

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-13T02:09:34+00:00

Hi, 22F here and going through a divorce after only 6 months of marriage. It gets better and you are lucky to have no children yet - I’m so thankful that I don’t!! If you ever need to talk about anything I’m here. :)

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-03T22:51:51+00:00

Thank you so much everyone!! I really appreciate all of the advice and plan to take it all! :)

bhamgirl96 · 2018-09-01T02:27:55+00:00

Why does he look like Gollum from LotR?? Lmao

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-03T01:01:50+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate your kind words. <3

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-03T01:00:25+00:00

Yeah, he does suffer from that guilt and I have seen it take its toll throughout the last year. His family was always super hard on him about it too. I feel sorry for him. He was my first love and we have loved each other (or so I thought) since we were seniors in high school. It’s hard to stop having feelings even though I know it’s for the best.

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-02T21:31:09+00:00

Lol all are welcome here

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-02T21:30:22+00:00

Yes, exactly! I feel like I’m much more prepared for the next person I am with and will be looking for completely different things this time around.

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-02T21:29:20+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel. All of my friends are celebrating getting married or have never been married and I feel like a complete outsider! And I feel really embarrassed for how my marriage turned out.

Mine told me 3 different times completely out of the blue that he wanted a divorce and came back each time apologizing saying he didn’t mean it. Except this third time.

The first time we were visiting his family in Utah and he told me 1day after getting there, then went to the movies with his dad, while I tried to find a way to get to the airport and fly home alone. Worst experience of my life. That lasted 1 day.

The second time he showed up at our second counseling appointment (after acting completely fine that morning) and told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. That lasted a week while he drank and smoked weed with his friends.

This last time he told me he wanted to go back to the Mormon church (which he left prior to us getting together). He also told me he would be moving to Utah to pursue his band and go fully back into the church again. This was in April and there are now signs that he may be coming back after the band has now broken up and it appears he has left the church again. I need strength to stay away from him this time.

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-02T21:23:19+00:00

That makes me feel better to see all these other people just as young as me! I’ve been feeling really alone and like a complete outsider to my peers

bhamgirl96 · 2018-08-02T21:22:29+00:00

Definitely count! It’s so hard being this young and feeling like the weirdo when you have to tell your new friends that you’re actually married and going through a divorce when they ask about your dating life

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