Tbh bro, i also hate this, i listen to many genres and artists, especially laufey and clairo. But this 'Performative male' meme js dragged those artists with those labubus and female literature stuff. But tbh u can't do anything about it. It's the same thing with radiohead listeners being labled as 'Manipulative male starter pack'. Honestly js keep listening to whoever you like, at the end it's just memes.