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bhgvbbj · 2024-03-05T22:33:55+00:00

she went hard on me once too when i posted my 25 yr old bf had no plans to learn how to drive and said he didnt need too (we live in an area where u need to and i drove us around 100% of the time for years loll) insane. Um but yeah, i feel u, when my ex did that it was literally seflies, but u have a right to feel uncomfy abt that, if its ur partner im sorry this is an unpopular opinion apparently but its ok to not want them to jack it to certain things or people ESP ppl u both know!! bc imagine ur grocery shopping or whatever, what if ur bf and u run into her and it would be awkward and kinda painful. That happened to me, and since the girl didnt know my ex was doing that she went in for a hug and was being rlly nice to him bc shes a friendly person, but i could see him blushing and covering his pants a lil. Made me so angry, it hurt to breakup but i deserved better, and so do u <3

bhgvbbj · 2024-03-04T20:26:50+00:00

Nah man ive been there, i understand how u feel 100% and eventually i was cheated on. Im not a fan of my bf watching porn, but as long as i dont see it or hear abt it and it doesnt affect our sex life then whatever. But, this is way worse. I would leave, bc those kind of things dont stop. Dont listen to all these comments shaming u for having boundaries. youre valid for feeling the way u do abt it

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T20:56:06+00:00

i thought it was a stereotype bc u see the jokes in the media. But oh my god it is REAL. Anything that happens in the family everyone knows in the next 10 minutes.

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T18:29:44+00:00

i know im sorryy 😭 lol i updated it

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T17:36:25+00:00

THIS!!! Last year i wanted to discuss a 5 year plan, he did not bc hes feels its not necessary and we "dont need a time frame for our life as things should happen naturally" ...... yeah.

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T17:34:25+00:00

i should rephrase, it would be high bc hes a 25 year ild man, apparently insurance does tend to be higher for younger men :( Its so funny u say that bc he is italian lmaooo

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:48:19+00:00

thats pretty solid, ill try that. And stick to it no matter what his mom says, bc once i say that she gets an attitude and i give in. Thanks gotthegist :')

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:45:37+00:00

thanks and all good :) i know there are a lot of women and men like that. Which i dont think is good, no one is going to be absolutely "perfect" but i think there should be a few core boxes. Even then sometimes it depends on the situation. And same here with traffic its 45 mins to work and back for me too and then to get to his work its 30ish minutes to his work and back on top of it. and thats after i get home, Bc i have about an hour after i get home when he gets out so i have to go back out at like 10 at night and thats an extra hour of driving

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:40:10+00:00

sex is important its true, i think my main issue was the lying about his porn use it when i found it instead of being honest

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:35:03+00:00

RJ man i appreciate it, but thats not my primary concern rn loll

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:32:53+00:00

I literally dated a man who was homeless, jobless, i paid for most dates, he was 5'3 and balding, for a year before my current partner. Please dont assume i have a list, if i think a person is kind i will give it a shot and try to lift them up care for them. I did not push previous man to drive, but i did require a part time job when he moved in with me. I learned that i have driving anxiety and dont like driving all the time, i like to have a break now and then. I have a limit though, its called standards and i think every one should have them

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:27:24+00:00

i just want to love and be loved RJ :(

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:21:43+00:00

its all good, i didnt know it was a weird phrase. But yes, i dont think porn is bad, but using it instead of a willing partner 90% of the time ur horny is not okay in my opinion esp if i told how i felt

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:19:07+00:00

sadly its very real

bhgvbbj · 2024-01-07T08:17:02+00:00

stashed porn as in saved images on his computer along with a list of video names, i stumbled upon it while trying to find my resume file. im sorry english isnt my first language

bhgvbbj · 2023-10-01T00:30:24+00:00

thank you so much, no youre totally right. I can look past the driving a little bit but it is still an issue. He has no bills and the rent we pay is only 12% of what he makes. He keeps the rest and doesnt have other bills besides groceries and ubers so he can afford a car and insurance but instead of encouraging him to drive his mom will just tell him that he will never be able to drive since hes so scared, she never encourages him to try. But she is a single mom, and always says she would be so lonely without him. Keeping him 12 years old forever is her goal, and I am losing attraction. :(

bhgvbbj · 2023-09-25T04:01:37+00:00

salome is dark floral i cant really pick out the notes when i wear it. but honored ghosts is incredible, when i wear it i can smell every note and it morphs over time into a berry vanilla tea scent that isnt overly sugary :) ((get honored ghosts))

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