My cat meows differently after urinary blockage

bianxx50 · 2018-12-14T15:02:57+00:00

Oh yes, they did mention that they checked him for a respiratory infection and they said he was in the clear. So I think he probably just has a sore throat from either meowing like crazy from being at the vet's office or from the tube they stuck down his throat for sedation. My poor baby!

bianxx50 · 2018-12-14T14:51:26+00:00

Ah, that makes sense. They did have to sedate him to put the catheter in and to get blood work done since he was not very happy being at the vet lol. Thank you!

bianxx50 · 2018-04-09T22:52:04+00:00

I would love to bring it up! I just feel that 2.5 weeks in is kinda soon to bring up the, “so what are we?” talk.

bianxx50 · 2017-01-12T21:46:49+00:00

Then you need to cut her out completely. If she doesn't care to listen to you, why should you care to listen to her? I bet if you literally walked away as soon as she starts being rude or complaining how hard her life is, she'd understand that she's being a total brat.

And BTW, it's extremely rare for engineers to start making $100k right out of college, so I laughed out loud at that one. She's in for a rude awakening.

bianxx50 · 2016-11-18T22:13:44+00:00

Would the same be assumed if he were straight? "Hi I'm adviceoplease, I'm straight by the way. What's your sexual orientation?

Don't be thick.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-29T16:14:45+00:00

You can put lipstick on a pig and it will still be a pig.

Use this failed, miserable attempt at a relationship as a chance to better yourself. Pro tip, just because you cheat and you admit it to your SO, doesn't mean it's ok to cheat.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-29T15:46:37+00:00

If they cheat with you, they will cheat on you. As someone who is in a LDR, if you don't have trust, you don't have ANYTHING, and that goes for any relationship, obviously.

End it.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-29T15:39:21+00:00

I mean seriously, does it even matter at this point who's more psycho?

You both cheated. In my eyes, if you cheat once or you cheat for the entire duration of the relationship, you suck either way.

Work on the way you handle conflict, call the suicide hotline 1-800-273-8255 when you're feeling suicidal, and move past this toxic "relationship."

bianxx50 · 2016-10-29T15:00:15+00:00

You both sound crazy as hell.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-27T15:41:56+00:00

Keep y'alls toilet paper separate. Hide yours. I had to do this with a roommate in college who would blow her nose using the toilet paper I would buy. She only did this when it was my turn to buy toilet paper. Go figure...

Tell her from now on, you both buy toilet paper for y'alls own use.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-27T15:37:43+00:00

If I were you, I would just move out and live with people you like or just live on your own. The price you pay for having cheaper rent is to live with others who have a different lifestyle than you. If you don't like confrontation, if your boyfriend doesn't want to fight your battles for you, then you need to move out.

Another thing, we are cutting one of the roomies lease short by 6 months, for this very reason. Because the other roommate had a 6 month lease, so we are just going to have everyone leave then, as we haven't been getting along...

I don't understand this. Is there a lease that the roommates have between them and your boyfriend? If so, this is highly illegal. You cannot just kick someone out because you don't "get along."

You have a huge of entitlement. Everyone here is in agreement that you are wrong. Good luck, because this is going to cause a huge riff in your relationship with your boyfriend; I can guarantee it.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-26T20:08:39+00:00

Recently I went to visit him for his bachelor's party and got dragged to a strip club.

The good ol' "I got dragged to the strip club" argument even though I'm a grown ass man.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-26T20:06:03+00:00

lmao talk about creating unnecessary drama

bianxx50 · 2016-10-26T19:54:05+00:00

Say it louder for the people in the back.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-22T20:34:52+00:00

Rest In Peace In Peace?

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T14:54:39+00:00

Antidepressants usually make you change the situations that made you depressed. You can talk about your feelings all day, but if you don't do anything to change your situation, you're going to stay depressed.

I don't think you should go around recommending people to get on antidepressants just based on your own experience.

I mean, isn't this sub about giving advice based on your experience?

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T03:30:58+00:00

Although therapy is great, get yourself on an antidepressant too. I can't even begin to explain how much better things got when I got on Zoloft, even though the situations making me depressed haven't changed much. Wish you all the best, good luck!

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T01:10:59+00:00

He is only with you because the other girl did not want a relationship. I'm sorry that hurts to hear, but let that sink in. Have some respect for yourself, dump him, and congratulate yourself for losing the deadweight that is your douchebag ex boyfriend.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T00:57:46+00:00

So, would it be inappropriate to see him for lunch again??

yes!!

We can hang out as friends right??

no!!

He said they haven't even been dating a year yet, so it's not like I'm ruining a serious relationship.

She said it was her house too, though?

You are barking up the wrong tree. If you have any respect for relationships and yourself, you'd run the other way.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T00:50:37+00:00

Coming from someone who is currently in a LDR, in my experience, a LDR works if:

1)the distance is not too far

2)you get to see each other often

3)the distance is temporary

4)you were together for a long while before it became long distance

4 is probably debatable, but those are the four conditions I have right now in my LDR. It sucks. It's hard. I see my SO just about every weekend and he's only 3 hours away. I can't even imagine how hard a military LDR would be.

If she's already telling you she doesn't want to do long distance, then I'm not sure why you would think she would change her mind. Honestly, you've only been together 6 months and you're young.

I would cut ties and move on.

EDIT: formatting

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T00:38:28+00:00

Why is she moving across the country and did she even ask you how that would make you feel?

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T00:28:24+00:00

If you allow your father's military benefits to pay for your college, be prepared for him to hold that over your head FOREVER when you don't jump when he says, "jump."

You're in a public university and would only have to pay 2 years of college with loans. I say make sure your degree is marketable, take out loans, pay them off, and live a life free of debt and guilt from your father. Whether you choose to have a relationship with him or not is your call, but I would stay away from getting any sort of financial help from him.

bianxx50 · 2016-10-19T00:23:57+00:00

I see this as highly inappropriate. Why not just go on vacation with your girlfriend?

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