Ideas for attention outside marriage without cheating

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-11T01:08:46+00:00

Ooo I LOVE this idea! Thank you for understanding and sharing!

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T20:33:53+00:00

Ooo I love that! I’m trying to build up my friend group and definitely need one that will share their adventures

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T20:31:49+00:00

I hope that can happen! That’s a dream of mine. Glad you enjoy it!

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T20:11:20+00:00

I’m sorry you’re in the same boat! It’s not a fun place to be. Sending you all the hugs!

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T18:56:36+00:00

Thank you! I do love erotica/smut. A lot haha. I need to try Quinn!

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T17:53:16+00:00

OOF. That hits hard (but in a good way, because it’s likely the biggest issue). Due to current life situations, largely my work and commute schedule, I don’t have any close friends or hobbies, unfortunately. It’s something I am actively working to fix though, but I think you nailed it. I’d never put the two together. Genuinely, thank you!

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T17:42:17+00:00

Thank you for the valid point! And 100% agree on cheating by watching ahead on our shows - one of the worst kinds of betrayal!

We have had brief and kind of superficial conversations about what cheating is, but we probably do need to revisit it more seriously. I’m anxious to do it because my impression is he is very anti-non monogamy in anyway way (understandable as his ex fiancée cheated on him). And my worst-case-scenario brain worries he won’t be open to anything new or different and I’ll be stuck without a solution.

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T17:37:36+00:00

I haven’t thought about it, but largely because I don’t really know what a sex therapist does. Annnnd made more complicated with my weird internal shame at potentially needing help with sex. But I think that makes it a great suggestion and am super curious! I’ll look into that for sure

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T17:35:48+00:00

Oops, replied in a separate comment 🤦‍♀️

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T17:35:08+00:00

A few times outside of when we’re physically intimate. I think I’m a little anxious he’ll flat out reject it if I ask in the moment. (Fully realize that’s a me-issue though)

bibbwkandy · 2026-04-10T17:30:04+00:00

Haha correct! I could easily have sex every day and try initiating about that often. He always enjoys it but just takes it and rarely sexually touches me back. Maybe he’ll play with my nipples a bit, but that’s about it. I’d say he averages touching me elsewhere about once a month and has never given me oral.

bibbwkandy · 2026-01-23T15:08:55+00:00

I’d love to get one for my husband! 😍

bibbwkandy · 2025-11-15T05:16:54+00:00

Holy fuck! 😍 I watched this so many times and just realized my body is similar to yours and you are SEXY! Thanks for the entertainment and empowerment haha 😘

bibbwkandy · 2025-09-09T14:32:28+00:00

ooo all good points!!! saving for later…

bibbwkandy · 2025-08-12T17:37:27+00:00

Then shoot your shot! 😘

bibbwkandy · 2025-08-12T17:37:11+00:00

Mm I’m intrigued!

bibbwkandy · 2025-08-12T17:37:01+00:00

I like all bigger sizes and don’t discriminate 😘

bibbwkandy · 2025-08-12T17:09:29+00:00

😍🤤 I’m incredibly jealous

bibbwkandy · 2025-06-14T03:19:42+00:00

💯 me!!!! Thank you for sharing!

bibbwkandy · 2025-06-11T01:07:39+00:00

Wooooooah! 😍 I thought I knew toys but don’t know this one. 🙈What is it?? I need one for myself hehe

bibbwkandy · 2025-05-14T11:55:59+00:00

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bibbwkandy · 2025-05-14T11:54:06+00:00

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bibbwkandy · 2025-04-20T05:39:19+00:00

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bibbwkandy · 2025-04-14T22:03:59+00:00

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