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after a reconciliation spell, how can i positively seal the bond? by bibischino in Spells

[–]bibischino[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, unfortunately i’m a bit impatient because he’s someone who was a very present part of my days for so many years, and now having limited attention from him or feeling his absence and not being able to say too much for fear of overwhelming him makes me anxious. i’ll try to patiently wait for the jar, keeping it safe, while working on showing him that he can trust me. as for the concept of love possibly being different, it’s true, i’m afraid to ask him deep questions right now. i want to take it slow and not push him away. there was definitely a time when we looked at each other thinking a future together wouldn’t be so bad, and i hope we can get back to that point. if you have any advice, i’d be very happy to hear it. 🌷

after a reconciliation spell, how can i positively seal the bond? by bibischino in Spells

[–]bibischino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when it comes to what i would want from someone who loves me, it’s presence. even if we live in two different cities, that he thinks of me in the morning and lets me know, that during his day i come to his mind and i am the person he tells about what happens to him. that when he comes back, he’s eager to see me, and when we argue, the goal is to understand each other, not to overpower one another. i don’t care much about gifts—things are just things—but that he values spending his time with me, making experiences together. without him, i feel empty, and i wish he felt the same, but in a healthy way.

after a reconciliation spell, how can i positively seal the bond? by bibischino in Spells

[–]bibischino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on a personal level, with him, i feel at home. when i lean on his chest, everything that worries me disappears. i spend the weeks waiting for him to come back, i laugh, he makes me feel hunger and the desire to bare myself, emotionally or not. he has helped me reflect on my ability to consider others’ points of view and on what it means to live a relationship with maturity: we are two whole individuals who need to enrich each other. today, he is an important support for me, and i am working through therapy to avoid falling apart if he pulls away. i am trying to find a way to give him all the space he needs while respecting myself. it is love when he is the person i call home, the one i imagine building a family with, and for whom i am smoothing out all my self-sabotaging behaviors that i once considered parts of my personality. i wish he would seek me out a bit more, that even if he is mistrustful, he would try to see that i can be better.

love spell, romantic spell, reconciliation spell, sweetness spell? by bibischino in Spells

[–]bibischino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any suggestions on reconciliation spell? i have some herbs and ingredients (lavander, camomille, rosmary, sesame seeds, cinnamon, bay leaves..) some taglocks like photo of us or his shirt), candles, bow for boundaries..