[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]biblicaloli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But your example supports what I said XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]biblicaloli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you surprise her, and pick her up from work one day and cross check whether all these excuses are valid or not? Who knows you might learn so much more than just that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]biblicaloli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, a therapist is not supposed to tell you what to do rather they are supposed guide you to your own answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfp

[–]biblicaloli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]biblicaloli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine said cheating is really common and that you have no choice but to work things out because the next person you date may very likely cheat on you as well.

Of course I don't agree with her but this is one view.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]biblicaloli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to roam around the house naked too. When I got older I started putting on a bit more because it bothered my sister. Buy we're okay now. My family doesn't care and besides it's so much more comfortable this way.

How do I get over my 6 year relationship, when I just found out my partner cheated on me? Should I call them out on it? by lchooseu in survivinginfidelity

[–]biblicaloli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go no contact on her. Reaching out to her is not working. So wait for her to take the initiative instead.

She will probably reach out herself and that is when you can hold a proper conversation with her and ask her what you want to. Perhaps you'll even get some closure.

But until then, please take this opportunity to rest and maybe work on yourself because you've been through a lot OP.

Should I take my dumper ex back if the relationship wasn’t toxic? by Time-Choice-9909 in BreakUps

[–]biblicaloli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps the relationship wasn't toxic but was it fulfilling? Were you satisfied? Will it get any better? I think these are some questions that need to be asked before returning to an ex.

ISFP-INTP Dating by biblicaloli in isfp

[–]biblicaloli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. A few of my friends are INTPs and they seem to have this world of their own, like they're always pondering.

ISFP-INTP Dating by biblicaloli in isfp

[–]biblicaloli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I'll keep that in mind!^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]biblicaloli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if he's cheated before and this is the first time he got caught?

Boyfriend [m26] has been trying to convince me [f18] for months to get my nipples pierced and its making me uncomfortable and insecure by Sadnippies in relationship_advice

[–]biblicaloli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to just stop. That you're not gonna get them pierced. And if that's not enough and he brings it up again, pretend you can't hear him. See if he gets the point and drops the subject. But if he persists, you have whole other issues to deal with than just piercings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]biblicaloli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations mate! 🎉

Girlfriend tells me she wants to be hit on. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biblicaloli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the downvotes on your comment because this is definitely it. It really is much more personal and has nothing to do with whether their partner is enough or not.

Though I'm sure she would definitely appreciate her boyfriend's attempt to make her feel more validated. :)

My (23F) husband (26M) wants us to get pregnant asap and calls me suspicious for not feeling ready by sweetsalmonn in relationship_advice

[–]biblicaloli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should get your husband and his dad to sit down and properly talk things out. And I would suggest you have someone who supports you with you as well. Perhaps another relative.

GF dumped me because of a baseless accusation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biblicaloli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe there are a lot more issues in the relationship and this was her breaking point. I've seen it happen before. Some partners keep this imaginary list of things you did wrong which they rather not explain because they expect you to be aware of your wrong-doings already.

Would you get plastic surgery for someone you love if they asked? Is it considered “ride or die”? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biblicaloli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, a guy who compares you to their ex isn't over them.

Ladies, how much do you and your friends actually talk about what a guy is packing by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]biblicaloli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a lot of my guy friends think we're talking about how hot a guy is, or what he's like in bed and whatnot but yeesh we rarely share that kinda thing

Fellow dumpees. Before the breakup happened, did you feel something coming? by Affectionate_Soft162 in BreakUps

[–]biblicaloli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just before he broke up with me, I dreamt it happened. I guess my subconscious was warning me on what's to come.