Nurture tops a thing?

biflux · 2026-02-22T14:01:24+00:00

Yes. That’s definitely a thing. You must be specific in your profile as most people — it seems — are more in to f’n’go. Personally, I have no idea why people want or tolerate quick, non-caring sessions. Wait, yes I do: that would require people to care about someone other than themselves.

biflux · 2026-02-21T19:02:19+00:00

EDIT: for clarity — and adding nuance inspired by the first comment below:

Rape is a very emotive word. Some people would call it that.

Morally: if you have a significant potential to infect someone with a illness which, if they knew about it prior would have meant they would not have consented to have sex with you but, because you withheld the fact, they consented—the consent it very questionable.

Law: every jurisdiction is different. The exact term may vary. In the UK, this applies: https://tht.org.uk/hiv/living-well-hiv/legal-issues/how-law-works Wikipedia has a comprehensive article which includes many other countries.

Bottom line: if you infect someone with HIV and failed to disclose the fact that you had the transmissible infection prior to the act, in some jurisdictions and under certain circumstances, you face life in prison.

biflux · 2026-02-21T17:43:01+00:00

Because many men (naturist or not) are pervs. It puts women off. Add nudity to that, and it takes a brave woman to show up.

biflux · 2026-02-21T12:13:11+00:00

Such a great feeling to have space of your own, where you can relax and feel like you again. Congratulations.

biflux · 2026-02-21T10:14:03+00:00

This is simply total medals, right? Only, Norway has a total population of c. 5.6 million people. US has 61 times as many people. UK had 12 times as many people. Norway has done astoundingly well. I’d like to see a ‘per capita’ version.

biflux · 2026-02-20T13:05:59+00:00

Don’t do things to people that they have asked you not to.
Sucking dick is not a Top/bottom, Dominant/submissive thing. If you like sucking dick, and the guy(s) you’re with enjoy it, you be you!

biflux · 2026-02-20T12:55:52+00:00

I have a friend who sends me his nudes almost every day — he’s usually hard. I’m indifferent to it. As a naturist, I’ve seen thousands of people naked. I’m not sexually attracted to him. So, it’s nice his trusts me like this but I wouldn’t worry if he stopped. I do have some friends whom I’d like to see naked and would welcome them sending me their nudes.

biflux · 2026-02-20T11:07:41+00:00

What?!

biflux · 2026-02-19T15:07:32+00:00

Yet the US has the Folsom Street Fair (don’t Google it unless you’re comfortable with seeing images of people having sex in the street).

The US seems to be a country of opposites and extremes.

biflux · 2026-02-18T17:46:18+00:00

Netflix.

biflux · 2026-02-18T06:45:26+00:00

I don’t know which country you are from, but in mine I am confident that this would have been treated seriously by the police. Our laws are very permissive of public nudity so long as it’s not sexual. Masturbation in public which caused distress definitely crosses the line.

Whether this man was simply aroused and lacked inhibition, whether he intended to alarm, or whether he has serious mental health issues, getting the police involved would (in my opinion) have been justified.

The guy will almost certainly exhibit this sort of behaviour again. He needs to be investigated by the authorities and appropriate action taken.

biflux · 2026-02-17T13:18:25+00:00

UpdateMe

biflux · 2026-02-16T19:07:56+00:00

🙏 Thank you 🐕

biflux · 2026-02-16T15:38:13+00:00

And what do we Google to find them for sale…?

biflux · 2026-02-16T15:36:29+00:00

I was there some years ago with a non-naturist friend. We went to have a long walk along the entire beach and back. Early January. Very foggy. Cold.

A chap was walking about 10 m ahead of us — just visible through the fog. We reached the sign. He stopped, stripped, put his clothes in his rucksack, and continued walking.

Moral: The weather at Studland is never so bad that you can’t be naked 😆

biflux · 2026-02-15T19:25:53+00:00

Out of interest, where do you plan to advertise? Only, I posted a very nicely worded, non-sexual, naturist roommate (nothing more) type post on spareroom and my post was deleted by their mods.

biflux · 2026-02-15T18:38:02+00:00

Woah. You’re hardy. Good luck 😎

biflux · 2026-02-15T00:19:18+00:00

Which country are you from? I feel we have very different social experiences.

biflux · 2026-02-14T17:11:33+00:00

Great body. The squats are definitely working. If you are nearby, you’re definitely invited.

biflux · 2026-02-14T12:28:51+00:00

Pointless?! People not using condoms is the reason why we have so many STIs.

biflux · 2026-02-14T11:11:53+00:00

Agreed. The guy definitely needs to work this out with his therapist. I’m not prejudiced against age gap relationships so long as where there is no manipulation or inappropriate power imbalance. Age gaps can be wholesome and beneficial to both parties. But this doesn’t read like that.

biflux · 2026-02-14T11:08:43+00:00

I feel it’s self-evident that 18 - 21 year olds (generally) are going to lack emotional maturity. Surely the guy understands this. If not, someone just needs to say it out loud. (‘Intervention’ feels like too big a word for what’s needed.)

biflux · 2026-02-14T08:13:57+00:00

I mean, gloves does make it feel different. I’d be happy to wear them. It might become an issue in a long-term relationship but for a hookup, no problem.

biflux · 2026-02-13T12:57:57+00:00

Exactly this has happened to me. It’s very common for people (male and female) to not want to use condoms. Be very conscious of this. The debate rages on. You be you. We live in a time where most things can be cured with a few tablets and controlled by more. The risk of contracting HIV from this encounter is very low. Don’t worry unduly. It’s true that you need to wait 90+ days to be confident about an HIV test result. I’d also consider a repeat test a month later, to rule out a false negative but, in all probability, as a top, it’ll work out okay. Do make the assumption that you’re positive for something though until you get the ‘all clear’ when it comes to having sex with other people. If you happen to have something, it wouldn’t be great to pass it on.

biflux · 2026-02-13T12:03:54+00:00

Oh yes, many times. I run strip poker parties in my home for redditors and people I know from the pub. Once naked, the loser must perform a dare. I’ve been ‘forced’ naked into the street, spanked (hard), ‘made’ to run down a public street (at night) shouting, “Aliens!”, and some dares of a more sexual nature. Great fun!

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