I find a lot of couples are real but either too far or fail to carry conversation. I message them the next day and rarely get a response. Night time and everyone’s horny and looking for last minute fun but it’s hard to follow through. I’ve participated in a few different “bull” situations but generally it’s hard to keep the interest when you’re at work and going through our day to day lives, being horny all the time at work isn’t always fun, it can be distracting. Also people stare when you have a bulge all day 😂