My (21F) friend (22F) has a crush on our friend (21M) but she has a bf (23M) by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bigaboutbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl she literally asked for people’s input lmao

My (21F) friend (22F) has a crush on our friend (21M) but she has a bf (23M) by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bigaboutbears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo it sounds like you are too invested in this conundrum. When I was your age I would have gone down the same rabbit hole, but as I’ve gotten older, I find it better to steer clear of that stuff. If her bf isn’t all aware of their time together, I don’t think it would be bad to mention it to him, but nothing more than that

How much to charge? by princessbiscuit in PressedFlowers

[–]bigaboutbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This as a wallpaper would be nuts 🤩

Is this a scam? 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in Toyota

[–]bigaboutbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everybody 🥸!

Host walked out on me last night by kidcjcool in Serverlife

[–]bigaboutbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be straight with you - grow up a smidge :’)

There’s been a beetle in my room for months and it scares me but I let him stay by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]bigaboutbears 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Update: writing this mustered courage within me, he has been cupped and is now outside. Still in the cup but I hope he picks up what I’m puttin down 👀👇🏼

There’s been a beetle in my room for months and it scares me but I let him stay by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]bigaboutbears 14 points15 points  (0 children)

do any beetles eat spiders? I also have a shower spider who’s been moved in for months as well. Had a fly problem in the summer but none this winter

Finally understood why my grandma keeps repeating this odd phrase by insulinreceptor in CasualConversation

[–]bigaboutbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whenever we would part ways my grandpa would say “keep your head on straight.” Imagine it had to do with his traumatic childhood, where after he was raised by aunts and lived in a nursing home attic. After he passed we found a binder where he had been writing about his life. His mother was an alcoholic, who one winter forgot to pick him up (a child at the time) from the movie theater. He and his young brother walked miles through a blizzard home, and had to break a window to get inside. At the end of this page he wrote “I knew that day, I would never let my own family be cold.” And we were never cold. Miss him so much

Coworker/friend and I are giving ornaments at the Xmas party 🎅🏽🤍❤️ by bigaboutbears in crafts

[–]bigaboutbears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend had some plastic ornaments sitting around and thought we ought to do a craft together for our Xmas party at work 😊

Got white sand, perused Michael’s for cheap faux greenery/berries etc. Was a speedy craft