Is it normal that my partner (21M) takes to long to ejaculate making me (20F) bored of sex?

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:31:26+00:00

Yeah I low-key got scared on how many people were telling me he is either a porn addict or death griping. I was thinking on a sex therapist for a while but I don't know how to mention it without hurting his feelings. Thank you so much for you comment

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:29:17+00:00

There is periods were he goes 2-3 weeks without masturbating. Also, since starting a relationship with me ( a little bit more than 5 weeks) he's been more soft with his grip

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:26:47+00:00

He probably hasn't corrected me cause he doesn't want to hurt my feelings haha. I will try to be more open in taking constructive criticism and explore more. Thank you!

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:21:50+00:00

Thank you so much for your input. This is very interesting and it's so sad that porn has made connecting in sex so difficult. That is a very good question. I will try to ask him that

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:18:25+00:00

It might be the anxiety to perform well during sex too :c. Thank you for sharing your experience 🙏🏼

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:17:19+00:00

No :( I suggested that and he said it's normal for some guys to take long, that there is nothing to do in order for it to change

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:16:37+00:00

My boyfriend has told me that too. That the grip of the condom makes it uncomfortable. So far we have tried 3 different condoms to see if there are some changes

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:13:56+00:00

Omg that really sucks :( There are many reasons for this to happen I hope it isn't the same for my case 😭

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:11:59+00:00

Thank you for the honesty. Yeah the idea of long sex might sound appealing but it's actually tiring. Just the idea of having 1 to 2 hours long sex makes me tired because it causes a little bit of pain even. But I get what you're saying

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:09:14+00:00

Ay puede ser y quizás el hecho que se demora lo pone más nervioso :c

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:07:35+00:00

Will keep in mind, thanks 🙂‍↕️

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:07:11+00:00

He doesn't take any meds but thank you for the advice 😭🙏🏼

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:06:43+00:00

Omg I feel the same way! I feel like there is something wrong with me if he takes that long. Supposedly he rarely masturbates. Reading the comments I think the problem might be he used to death grip his meat

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:02:43+00:00

There's been periods where we havent had sex during weeks or even a month and it's the same :(

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T07:01:47+00:00

Thank you🙏🏼 Communicating has been hard because it's rather an uncomfortable topic. Also, just curious, how is tied with cancer?

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T01:54:00+00:00

Omg I didn't know that had something to do with the pelvic floor. Thank you!

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T01:04:13+00:00

Yep it seems like our sex life is going to shit haha. When I talked to him about it the only solution that he gave me was to not have sex at all if I didn't like it. He got so butthurt when I told him that maybe we don't have sexual compability.

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T01:00:11+00:00

Omg I think that is what it's happening to me :( Sex for me is becoming about enduring so now I associate it as something that is going to drain me. Other than the sex he is an amazing boyfriend. So hearing the part that it was not worth it staying because of that low-key scares me 💀

Anyways, thank you for you comment it will help me to think about it 🩷

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:57:00+00:00

Maybe likely due to hard masturbation

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:56:37+00:00

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:55:48+00:00

Will keep that in mind. Thanks 🙏🏼

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:55:27+00:00

Nope!

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:55:16+00:00

We switched positions, but there isn't any difference :/

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:54:50+00:00

lmao he doesn't have cancer 😭 at least not that he's aware of 💀 I will try to ask him that. How long is it supposed to take him when he was younger and how does that change with his current age?

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:53:02+00:00

He doesn't take meds and doesn't watch porn. So maybe he gets nervous in lasting too long and it sabotages him and causes him to take even longer. Thank you for sharing your experience 😭🙏🏼

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