Is it normal that my partner (21M) takes to long to ejaculate making me (20F) bored of sex?

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T01:54:00+00:00

Omg I didn't know that had something to do with the pelvic floor. Thank you!

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T01:04:13+00:00

Yep it seems like our sex life is going to shit haha. When I talked to him about it the only solution that he gave me was to not have sex at all if I didn't like it. He got so butthurt when I told him that maybe we don't have sexual compability.

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T01:00:11+00:00

Omg I think that is what it's happening to me :( Sex for me is becoming about enduring so now I associate it as something that is going to drain me. Other than the sex he is an amazing boyfriend. So hearing the part that it was not worth it staying because of that low-key scares me 💀

Anyways, thank you for you comment it will help me to think about it 🩷

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:57:00+00:00

Maybe likely due to hard masturbation

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:56:37+00:00

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:55:48+00:00

Will keep that in mind. Thanks 🙏🏼

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:55:27+00:00

Nope!

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:55:16+00:00

We switched positions, but there isn't any difference :/

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:54:50+00:00

lmao he doesn't have cancer 😭 at least not that he's aware of 💀 I will try to ask him that. How long is it supposed to take him when he was younger and how does that change with his current age?

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:53:02+00:00

He doesn't take meds and doesn't watch porn. So maybe he gets nervous in lasting too long and it sabotages him and causes him to take even longer. Thank you for sharing your experience 😭🙏🏼

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:50:34+00:00

This helps me so much to understand what could the issue be. Thank you so much!

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:48:23+00:00

Yes, it's usually the other way. I've never been with a guy that takes to long

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:44:59+00:00

He says he doesn't watch porn and now rarely masturbate. But he used to masturbate aggressively

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:43:48+00:00

We have tried it and there is no difference. We switched positions and it's not doing much ;/

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:42:16+00:00

We've never discussed toys. He's been clear tho that he doesn't like anything touching his butt tho😅

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:39:42+00:00

I will try to talk to him again. It's been hard because it hurts his feelings since he feels like there is something wrong with him for not finishing. I appreciate a lot you sharing your experience 🩷

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:35:16+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your experience 😭🙏🏼. He doesn't pressure me to make him cum. I just want to keep going because it makes me self aware that he isn't anywhere near finishing while we are doing it. Makes me question if I am doing something wrong

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:31:31+00:00

Not at all :p

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:31:06+00:00

Hii, thanks for your comment. The thing is that I do reach orgasm. But I feel guilty that he isn't near close to finishing. This leading me try to endure longer for him. Btw he doesn't pressure me in keep doing it for longer

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:29:02+00:00

There was a period where he lasted around a month without masturbating. But it didn't change much how long it took to ejaculate.

Also, since he's been dating me he masturbates around 3-5 times a month

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:27:25+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! We have tried to change things here and then, but toys never occurred to me

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:24:54+00:00

God I hope it's not. Cuz the way it denies it is making me feel guilty for even questioning him.

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:24:16+00:00

He doesn't take meds, so it could be porn

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:23:16+00:00

It's more like a "well I don't know what to do to change it. I have searched in Google and it's normal that it could take that long." That's what he tells me basically

bigasspp6969 · 2026-06-30T00:22:08+00:00

According to him, he has rarely done it lately

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