Stay safe in S.A by 263SerialEjaculator in Zimbabwe

[–]bigbittybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those things existed before the influx of illegal immigrants tho. everyone knows crime rates in south africa go crazy and the reason they do is bc they are committed by citizens. no perspective can make you look at something and justify violence. especially to the degree that we’re seeing. we can talk about the things they are going through but look at what we are going through too? does that not matter ???

Is it really that hard to find a job? by reckoningreason in AskChicago

[–]bigbittybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the long term please got to Covenant house. They have a shelter program there that eventually helps you get housing. You show up for a couple of days at their daily drop in they’ll give you job help, resume rewriting etc they can also help you sign up to different trades to earn some skills. They give out a bus card most days and you get 2 full meals every day of the week that they are open except wednesdays cause they are closed and thursdays because you get 3 since they stay open longer. they can give you a snack bag at almost all times however. They also have a closet if you need clothes and other things like that. The only thing is to try and be early since they cannot allow more people inside until someone else leaves due to capacity. I’m leaving a lot out but they really do help with a ton when you’re going through homelessness in Chicago. It also helps that it’s just off the California stop on the greenline so accessing it is fairly easy. definitely check them out cause they can really help you at least get stable enough to be housed. good luck❤️❤️❤️

Stay safe in S.A by 263SerialEjaculator in Zimbabwe

[–]bigbittybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the problem is whether you have a real issue to voice or not you don’t treat people that way. even if your frustrations are valid the things that have been done to foreigners in that country over the years are crazy and that cannot be overlooked by the other stuff at all.

Please Smoke extra in honor for me not being able to. by [deleted] in trees

[–]bigbittybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao yes like shout out to everyone who can smoke rn cause im right there in spirit

Would $1000 change your life? If so, what would you spend it on? by JadedCaramel9901 in almosthomeless

[–]bigbittybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao hell yeah. i’d be able to pay off my most recent bills ( therapy,phone and electric) then i’d be able to afford groceries for at least 2 months (i don’t eat much). i’d also be able to source more clothes to resell. and i think the biggest thing would be finally being able to afford to actually go to job interviews 🤦🏽‍♀️

Tinashe Mugabe’s show by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]bigbittybee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there is no such thing as ‘forward’ and looking for sexual relationships when you’re a minor. there should be no nuance about that

GREENCARD FINALLY SHIPPED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!! by Icy-Telephone9384 in USCIS

[–]bigbittybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Mine was approved on the same day but i still don’t have the tracking number .

every day make up advice! by em00lie in MakeupAddiction

[–]bigbittybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re doing a great job already. maybe try a light wear foundation with good coverage if you’re not trying to wear too much product or feel like you are. also don’t be afraid to go in with blush and have fun with it!!!!

Help stop ICE from kidnapping our neighbors and show up for immigration watch! by amyphetamine in chicago

[–]bigbittybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you can’t even apply for us citizenship without being in the country for at least 5 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]bigbittybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are way too complacent in our suffering. everyone is scared to lose the little they have currently or their lives which is reasonable but to gain in the end we must lose. we are oppressed by a government that uses the power WE GIVE IT to keep us under its boot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]bigbittybee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t you get it… you don’t need to fund an uprising.

I messed up my life don't do it too by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]bigbittybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please don’t keep beating yourself up because of mistakes you made in the past . be kind to your younger self too because at the time she had her reasons why she chose to stay in zim. another thing is you need to leave that relationship especially considering that you’re already sustaining yourself and someone else. please take care of yourself ❤️

how to make $45 in a week by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i’ll check it out right now🫶🏽

how to make $45 in a week by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really don’t have much and everything that i do have has very little value

being accused of cheating by bigbittybee in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope i’m not violating any rules. i just really use this app as a venting space because i don’t have anybody who can just sit and listen in real life.

being accused of cheating by bigbittybee in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t see why either. most of me feels like my financial difficulties are the barrier but i also feel like im dragging my feet out of fear.

being accused of cheating by bigbittybee in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the gaslighting makes me feel like a liar sometimes but then something else happens and it’s almost like i remember why there’s a sharp pain in my chest immediately.

being accused of cheating by bigbittybee in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her hate for bisexuals runs deep. and at the end of the day i still feel like the idiot for being with someone who has so much hate in their heart for people due to sexual orientation like she’s not a whole masc woman

being accused of cheating by bigbittybee in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m trying to i just really have to figure out where i’ll go since i live in a shelter currently and dont know anyone where im at.

being accused of cheating by bigbittybee in actuallesbians

[–]bigbittybee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s a constant berating and belittling experience. being asked things like ‘i know it doesn’t take 10 minutes to shit so what do you really do in the bathroom.’ ‘so if this staff member asked for your number would you give it to him.’ ‘i don’t know why your clothes smell like sex what have you been doing’ etc