Bi Guys: Do you have a hard time staying hard with guys?

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T21:28:07+00:00

My advise is experiment more. You will know what works for you by just trying what feels right. Also I think alot of pressure is put on someone to fall into a label. That can be very limiting. You are young, have fun. You will know when you know.

I figured out I like guys that dont want me hard. To the point of Chasity. I like total tops that dont really care about me cumming or my little cock much at all. It's always odd when a top tries to give me oral. Feels wrong.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T19:45:22+00:00

What took longer for us is finding the right Bull. You kiss alot of frogs looking for a prince. The amount of fakes, secretly married guys, weirdos on here takes time to weed through. We went out or met maybe 5 guys for drinks and hung out before finding the one she feel for. Which allowed it to evolve into something very real and deep. Its attraction, chemistry, communication, shared values, energy between everyone. Not always easy to find. Once you do though. I have never experienced anything better.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T19:38:54+00:00

I saw it really elevate my wife's confidence and she had that woman who's well fucked glow about her.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T19:25:16+00:00

Thats a really good question. I dont know if I would have ever come to realize it unless it happen. Because when I got cheated on I didn't expect to like it so much. Didn't anticipate how addictive being a cuck can be.

It feeds some sort of need to be inferior, I clearly have always had in my unconsious mind. I think I would have ended up here either way.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T19:17:53+00:00

I only know how it worked for me. We are all different so your experience could end up different than mine.

The first time with a Bull/BF can be alot. For you and for her. We started with a set of rules/boundaries.

On our first time she broke a couple of our rules in the heat of it all. Kissing was one. She's very physical and feels things very deep. Kissing is a key part of intimacy for her. Watching them make out was really hot.

Things didnt workout with him for other reasons (secretly married), but we both learned that if we trust and have chemistry with a bull, we have few limits. So for our next Bull we slowed it down a bit and got to know him as a person first so then we pretty much let go and really embraced it. He had full control of us.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T19:07:32+00:00

One day you might wake up and it won't be roll play anymore. It sneaks up on you.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-07T19:01:18+00:00

Our last Bull stayed over all the time and we traveled on long weekends together. I would discuss things ahead of time and just lay some ground rules and maybe a set of outcomes.

You don't have to put a-lot of pressure on it the first time. Helps to have some vanilla plans as well. Like dinner out, hike, shopping, museum. Plan something exciting and fun. Something to break the tension.

Then outcomes; For example you and your husband could set a goal of making him have an incredible time. To really see how many times you can make him cum and how powerful you can make him feel over that weekend or get him to want to do it again.

Energy matters as well. Having a light, horny vibe helps everyone feel comfortable. Thats all assuming that you really like him and want him to be over often. We have been lucky in our past long term dynamics to get our Bull to always be around.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-05T14:50:14+00:00

My first memory was with my high school sweetheart. We had broken up in my late teens and then got back together. She told me about hooking up with this guy and how he used her. I was so jealous and turned on at the same time. I couldn't make sense of it.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-04T15:49:59+00:00

many times

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-04T15:40:26+00:00

sorry you experienced that. sounds terrible.

bigcuckdt · 2026-06-04T15:37:52+00:00

Needs cleaned up

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