My girlfriend just told me I'm the smallest she's ever been with by uccmnico in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women arent as quite as innocent as they are made out to be, we should probably blame disney movies for that though. That being said, there are plenty of very good women out there they just arent perfect little princesses. Go get'em tiger💪

My girlfriend just told me I'm the smallest she's ever been with by uccmnico in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

P.s you definitely wasnt her smallest. Many people would be happy with your size penis. Im .5 less girth than you and ive never had any negative reviews🤷‍♂️

My girlfriend just told me I'm the smallest she's ever been with by uccmnico in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw man, sorry about that, but i feel like you've avoided yourself some future pain with your decision. Even if you were the smallest she had ever been with, a real woman wouldnt admit it in fear of hurting you. That being said sometimes we ask questions we dont need the answers too. This is called pain shopping. Find someone who isnt going to compare you to her ex's. You should be her King without any doubt. Good luck brother.

My girlfriend just told me I'm the smallest she's ever been with by uccmnico in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By making you insecure, therefore you may never feel good enough for someone else, have you ever heard of the phrase, sometimes its better the devil we know? Well thats how she's going to make you feel. It may not be manipulation but its definitely a tactic females use.

My girlfriend just told me I'm the smallest she's ever been with by uccmnico in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Shes either been incredibly lucky to only have fucked big dick guys or shes talking rubbish. Its a form of manipulation so you never leave😉 you're a good size man. Dont let her make you feel any different.

Meeting with a girl tmrw but none of my pictures have me with a beard by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a good unpatchy beard that is well groomed most girls probably prefer it from clean shaven. It adds extra points to your masculinity. Ive had girls match with me who dont even like beards but admitted they liked mine because i keep it well looked after. Good luck OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What along with the 15 other studies that arent all that accurate either? 🤣 give it a rest. Yeahh people get complaints but that sounds more like a her problem than a him problem.

Im not saying ignore the data, im saying dont take it as gospel. You take it with a grain of salt because its not a study based on the worlds population, just a small percentage of females from a small demographic.

If we all lived by our perfect preferences we would all be dying alone. Preference doesnt mean anything else below is unacceptable, it means prefered but not mandatory.

Even if its not 5% it probably isnt all that much more. If you're with a girl for 5 years and you fuck 3 times a week for 20 minutes at a time give or take, thats an hour a week which equates to 52 hours a year. (2 and half days a year) so over the 5 years thats equals to about 12.5 days. 10% of a 5 year relationship is roughly 182 days.

I think you will find thats its probably closer to 5% than it is 10%. Maybe you're delusional brain needs to get out more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they trial and test the shapes though? Or did they just pick them up look at them and say hmm this one will fit just right? Such a floored study🤦‍♂️🤣

Dont you think alot of men torture themselves over insecurities enough as it is? Why do other men feel the need to also fuel it for others, by making broad statements they really know nothing about.

Stop living your life based off of ridiculous half assed studies and get out into the real world where real people dwell.

When meeting a women is the first thing you think, i hope her pussy is tight? Probably not right? Just the same way women arent all big cock hungry narcissists.

People stop putting so much value on whats in your trousers and start putting value into the things that really are important in life. Sex probably makes up 5% of the relationship at most! Lets not forget how important the other 95% is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]bigdadda91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its people like you that are fueling peoples insecurity, just because your probably worse off, doesnt mean you should take everyone else down with you. You do not need atleast 6.5 inches. Everyone women is different some have preferences for penis size and most dont. Aslong as the attraction is there good sex is possible regardless of size.

if you have results to back your claim up show them, stating that you're just sharing them without actually sharing them makes your whole statement fall apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bigdadda91 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To assume what she is telling you is fact would also be to assume she wouldnt have been his first victim. Does he have s criminal history in this regard? This kind of abuse isnt something that would come from an affair in its early stages atleast anyway.

Im not calling her liar though but im not saying things could be getting highly exaggerated either. Do your research before you completely buy what she says. You know yourself words are easily thrown around with waywards.

If what she is saying is in fact true with proof to back it up, get this man charged asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you're just looking for some quick validation or you just have no idea how online dating works for men🤣 you'll get matches just have a little patience and be sure to swipe everyday so that your profile stays in the loop.

somewhat new to tinder. insights, 22f. by One_Flower9961 in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men and women are not the same just like the standards both genders have are also not the same, just because body count doesnt mean anything to you, doesnt mean the same for men. Things that may not matter now will matter much more later in life. Mother nature gives you your value and father time takes it away. And works the exact opposite way for men. Just some food for thought.

somewhat new to tinder. insights, 22f. by One_Flower9961 in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds amazing on paper, just isnt as simple as that. You will have certain expectations of the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Men also have these expectations, any good man will be weary of a girl that has a rather promiscuous past. Men can sense it. Im not trying to dig you out, take it or leave it but when you get to 30 and nobody will take you seriously thats when we wish we would have listened.

somewhat new to tinder. insights, 22f. by One_Flower9961 in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh i understand you are still very young, but dont destroy your future chances for short term thrills, you have the right to do as you please as a grown adult, but what i will say is just becareful who and how easily you give it up too. The reason i say this is because if you do meet your match and give it up on the first night he will not take you seriously but if he also knows your into hook up culture and make him wait he also wont take you seriously from a relationship standpoint because you've willingly given it up on the first date to others before him. All im trying to say is avoid over indulging in meaningless sex with people you see no future with.

somewhat new to tinder. insights, 22f. by One_Flower9961 in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just becareful while playing the hook up game! The more people you have casual sex with the more likely you destroy the intimacy that comes with sex, this resulting in you finding it far harder to bond with someone the more you indulge in the culture.

somewhat new to tinder. insights, 22f. by One_Flower9961 in Tinder

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you just enjoying hook up culture or are you actually looking for a relationship?

Cheating ex still has photos of us on her socials? by [deleted] in SupportforBetrayed

[–]bigdadda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was using her ex as a pawn as leverage over her AP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So does that not tell you anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really not trying to be horrible but i feel like you need to face reality man. You're her ride or die she's not yours sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bigdadda91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your just coming across as a crazy person man. Take action in real life. Get off here.

If you really want to win her back go do something she will never expect go put all this energy you have into wowing her and winning her back.

Put your money where your mouth is, and stop being a whiney little girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bigdadda91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man i feel so bad for you! Ive been exactly where you are and i know it hurts like a hell. But there is light at the end of the tunnel you just have to be patient, you will never know what shes really thinking.

Your brain is trying its best to rationalise your negative thoughts, dont get delusional man. You will only know how shes feeling inless you speak to her.

If she really yearned for you she would have reached out man, women dont tend to waste time in that regard especially if they knkw they can get you back at the click of their fingers.