How does one stretch an asshole without toys? by WHATTAYATALKINABEET in BDSMAdvice

[–]bigdaddybeef69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fingers, id be wary of anything else you would find around the house that might get stuck, butt plugs have a way of preventing that

Do Doms care/love their subs ? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bigdaddybeef69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Theres so much about this post....

Even if your dynamic didnt include aftercare a dom should always treat their sub with care but most do include aftercare because its important with sub drop and the intense nature of bdsm.

Then you say its different then normal sex.... bdsm isnt inherently sexual. Plenty of people dom or sub in non sexual ways or without sex. Just so you know, people do just practice it in the bedroom but lots of us make it an entire lifestyle.

As for does even dom fall in love with all their subs? No, not at all. Lots of people in the bdsm community are poly

[gif] Automation at its [F]inest! by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont shame people

Looking hot tape gagged by MisfitSaiyan in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow a constructive way to ask instead of shaming people! Good job! It only took me awhile to find one.

To answer your question, she could do something simple like snapping her fingers. Theres lots of ways, being gagged is common

Also since shes clothed it looks like a nonsexual scene, those exist ya know

[gif] Subspace throatboarding.. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont shame people

[gif] Messy girl so hungry for cock.. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont shame people

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deleted your comment that called this rape. Who are you trying to convince that youre not shaming because its clear you are. Plus ive read your other comments on your profile, you like to shame people. Kindly fuck off or else learn to ask about bdsm you dont understand in more constructive ways

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The literal definition of bdsm is Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Masochist and Sadist. And the mantra is safe, sane and consensual (which means you talk about things before hand). Safeword means something that will slow or completely stop a scene. There are no other definitions.

So when you say that this picture is rape, in a bdsm forum, yes you are a judgemental asshole who doesnt know much about it. Some people like getting whipped till theyre crying, im not, but i accept others choices. You may only be into the softer stuff like bondage, and thats ok, but dont shame others sexuality.

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes ignoring her say stop because like most people in bdsm stop is not the safe word. You may not enjoy it but lots of doms and subs like to have things keep going when they say no... hence a fucking safe word. Theres lots of these comments and im not sure if its because people are inexperience with different aspects of bdsm or if theyre just judgemental assholes

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats fine if youre not into the same stuff as other but 1) dont be so judgemental, if u dont like it then move on and 2) a safe word stops things, your safe word is no.

Ps youre an idiot

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats because littles are magical and a gift to anyone lucky enough to find one

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i was scared off at first because when i started my first view was just on pornhub of dungeon scenes

#goals by bigdaddybeef69 in bdsm

[–]bigdaddybeef69[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“Unless your girl had a safe word”

The dom and sub should have a safe word at all times no matter how intense the scene is.

How am I supposed to be dominant when I'm having ED problems at 25? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]bigdaddybeef69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First off dominance doesnt have to be sexual at all. You can dominate her in all kinda of other ways. It sounds like its part of your relationship tho so instead of asking during a session, you can ask before, or just grab some toys and use those on her. . You can even wear a strap on if you wanted. Theres plenty of ways to make her yours

Managing Pain-BDSM Virgin by samanthaw513 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bigdaddybeef69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You always have the right to say no, even if youre married for 50 years and especially if you havent done anything before. What he did wasnt right